Many children's problems seem to adults far-fetched and insignificant. However if not to help the child to deal with them, at the kid the diffidence, fear of independent life, unwillingness to communicate with other people can develop. If the child is teased at school, you should not close eyes to it and to think that everything will be solved by itself. It is necessary to help him to resolve a problem of relationship with schoolmates.
Instruction
1. The majority of those problems which arise at the child at school can be solved during the preschool period. Children, defining for itself which of them "" and who does not, is based on that how individual child is similar to the others. Look narrowly at the child that in him causes hostility or sneers in other children. For example, if future school student does not differ in accuracy, teach him to watch yourself during the preschool period, so you will help the kid to be prepared for independent school life.
2. Very often his weight can be the reason that the child is teased at school. Too thin children are called "dystrophic persons" and "skeletons", and inclined to completeness - "fat men". You watch the child's food, pay attention to his physical shape, write down in sports section. You should not calm the child, saying that everything will be solved by itself, teach him to love yourself and to seek for self-improvement. It is especially good if you support initiatives of the son or daughter and you will organize joint sports activities.
3. One more reason for sneers of people around – poor eyesight at the child. That the child did not hesitate to wear glasses, choose together with him a fashionable frame, pick up model, convenient for it. Tell the child that glasses are worn by many world celebrities, and you should not hesitate of the poor eyesight absolutely.
4. If the child differs in assiduity, well studies, is on the good account at teachers, it can be the cause for envy of schoolmates. That the child was not teased with "nerd", explain to him that to you it is not necessary to treat haughtily because of the good marks those who study worse. You should not be set and put yourself above others. However and it is not necessary to follow the tastes of schoolmates. It is not necessary to allow others to write off to achieve respect of people around. The authority at schoolmates it is necessary to deserve.
5. Sometimes children tease each other because of too low or too high growth. Explain to the son or the daughter that each person special, and it is not necessary to hesitate of the growth. Pick up to the child beautiful and fashionable clothes for a figure, you watch that he did not stoop.
6. If problems at school at the child arise how he is dressed, think whether correctly you choose clothes for the daughter or the son. The fact is that some parents, buying things to the children, are guided by own taste, and do not take preference of the child into account. Allow children to participate actively in the choice of articles of clothing, ask them that be fashionable at their age-mates. It will allow the school student to feel surer and adult.