The daughter has an inferiority complex: what should I do?

The daughter has an inferiority complex: what should I do?

During teenage maturing, girls are especially inclined to self-criticism, complexes concerning appearance appear. How to help the child?

Instruction

1. Always help the teenager to look at yourself, on the other hand. You speak about its appeal, focusing attention on appearance advantages and also about internal qualities which are important. Many famous women, submitting men, were famous not for the beauty, but charm and intelligence.

2. You watch everyday life of the teenager was rather loaded by useful affairs, study, obligations for the house, out-of-school classes, personal interests. Let the head and the schedule of the child will be clogged with useful interesting affairs, there is no time left for self-criticism and vegetation about a mirror in search of the shortcomings.

3. The modern television and the Internet from early age forms an image of ideal beauty of a female body and face at children. Watching movies, advertizing thumbing through magazines, draw the attention of the girl to enormous work of stylists, the makeup artist, fashion designers and also photographers and directors who are able to hide shortcomings of models and actresses skillfully. The ideal appearance on the screen and in magazines cannot be natural. The famous beauties without make-up and beautiful clothes are not so attractive.

4. Never release comments on appearance, familiar relatives, just passersby. Try to mark out personal qualities of the person not really attractive externally. Imperceptibly point to its advantages which are won before beautiful appearance.

5. You teach the girl to appreciate natural beauty. Layers of cosmetics will not save from the excess weight and a problem figure. Therefore encourage the teenager to do fitness, dances and other active classes. So it will be easier for girl to approach the ideal, to feel more surely.

6. Pay attention to clothes of the girl, things have to be well chosen, be allocated with taste and style. If you have no rather good taste, ask familiar fashionistas, to choose things for your girl.

7. The teenage girl has to have specially picked up cosmetics on skin care, it is possible to buy also the decorative cosmetics but intended for young skin, it has light texture and shades preferably light and natural. Having all attributes on care for appearance, the girl with pleasure will perform daily procedures, to enjoy results.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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