Many parents learned by own experience that education of the child – business very difficult. Absolutely not easy, it appears, to accustom the baby to carry out elementary rules of conduct in society. Your kid not always can and wants to understand that you want to inform him. Educational process can become real torment both for you and for your child.
However you have to understand accurately that on your shoulders the huge responsibility for this little man lies. In many respects from you, parents, depends whether your kid will be able to be socialized. It is important that his education corresponded to a spirit of the age and universal moral values. How to reach it?
First of all, it is necessary to take the next moment for the rule. Your child, despite the infantile age, already certain independent personality. Do not neglect this fact. Education should not turn into training of the kid. You should not arrange his life under the desires and needs. Like a thought that your baby has own desires and preferences too.
The most important to catch a fine line between permissiveness and freedom of choice. Help the kid to master this method. You can begin with the smallest, just offer every time before a game the kid two toys at choice. Let he will independently solve, than you will play today. You can do the same when you gather for walk or carry out household chores. Be not the dictator in educational process. Try to get up to the place of your kid.
The most effective way of education of children is in that own example to show to the child what is correct and that is not present. The English proverb says: "Do not raise children, all of them will equally resemble you, bring up yourself". And this is true. The very first example for your child are you. The child studies and learns the world through a prism of your feelings, thoughts and acts.
You will absolutely in vain waste time, trying to train the athlete and the Olympian from the kid, lying on a sofa. The example of parents in education of children is the powerful tool. If your kid daily sees how you communicate with the spouse, relatives surrounding people, then he will inherit this manner of behavior from you. Show to the child on own example that the order in the room much more facilitates life and saves negative emotions.
Your child has to understand that that way of life which there live his dad and mom is true. The kid should not feel compulsory force, to him has to be interestingly and pleasantly perform those operations which he sees. If your daughter daily sees how mom carefully looks after herself, selects the clothes, then it will become also her habit. Work on yourself, you watch the acts and then the probability of ill-breeding will be minimized.