The first several seconds after the birth of the kid – the most high points in the woman's life. Before the child carried away in children's office, separate stay practiced, today even bring to women after Cesarean section of the child as soon as possible, undertaking, however, cares of the baby. Anesthesia is tried to be done spinal that the woman was in consciousness and heard the first shout of the child.
Future mothers should not be afraid whether it will turn out to come at them into contact with the child as the newborn adapts to any behavior of mother and to any her emotional behavior. If the child was born healthy, then everything that he needs – to be near mother and maternal milk, skills of leaving any woman masters without effort within several days.
The child right after childbirth is put to a breast, the newborn begins to suck a breast, there is the first contact of mother and child. Obstetricians even use an applying method to a breast as prevention of refusal of the child, at the main part of women who planned to refuse the kid the maternal instinct wakes up.
There is only no correct way of leaving and education. Choose that it seems to you reasonable and convenient – then life in the new status will be harmonious.
In the patrimonial hall mother and the child will spend about 2 hours, do not spend this time for communication with relatives, telling about how there took place childbirth what the kid was born – pay attention to yourself and the child. Even the usual visual contact means to both much. If women perceive the child as something new in the life, then for the newborn mother – the only person in the world, new to it, with which he is familiar for a long time. He got used to a rhythm of your heart, that is why on hands at mother to the child is the most comfortable, he feels that not one, hearing beating of your heart. If the kid worries – just put him on the left side from yourself or put on a breast.
In the first several weeks the child is not able to focus a look yet, does not recognize anybody, but he perfectly hears you – say with it as much as possible, sing songs. If you worry that the maternal instinct is not shown, then analyze in general the behavior. The maternal instinct is not "baby talk" if the woman before childbirth was avaricious on manifestation of emotions, then hardly the crowded diaper will cause in her emotional explosion on the fact that intestines of the child function normally. The maternal instinct is, first of all, a care, and love and understanding that you became a mom, can come not at once, usually it occurs within a year after the delivery.
If you feel fears or excessively you worry before childbirth – it is possible to visit the psychologist in clinic for women.
The contact "skin to skin" is very important, usually newborn put on a stomach at once if there is no urgent need of medical intervention. So skin of the child not only becomes populated by the necessary microorganisms, there is something more important: experiments confirmed that the first contact with the child is very important for any of parents. Invited future fathers who came right after extraction of the child to Cesarean section, under any pretexts to fathers allowed to take the baby, those fathers who contacted to the child the first minutes of life were more attentive and careful, did not hesitate "to be lisped" with the child. By the end of the first month of life the child will learn to recognize parents and to hold a head, will become much bigger to be awake, so to communicate more with you. The first smile will become the first gift to young parents.