Children - flowers of life, they our future, they our everything! And of course parents do not want to see tears in the face of the child in any occasion. But in the habitual schedule of life there are certain stages through which pass practically all remains, and adaptation to a garden - one of the most painful periods both for children, and for their parents.
The kindergarten is the first experience of communication of the kid with collective. If the child has no contraindications to visit of preschool institution, then it is better to send of course the child to a garden for development of its communicative qualities.
Not the fact that accustoming to a new environment will be endured painfully. Happens that children from the first day find a common language with fellow students and without tears endure long-term parting with mom. However, in 90% of cases it not so.
Before the first time to bring the child into a garden, it is possible to take a walk with it around the territory and to take a detached view as children behind a protection cheerfully spend time with the tutor. During walk it is necessary to tell about how it will be interesting to your kid to come to play with children. According to psychologists, in the stories you should not use phrases with a negative particle ""not"" - ""to you it will not be terrible, I will not leave for a long time, nobody will offend you"". It is better to replace such expressions on ""will cheerfully play with other children, I descend on affairs and at once I will return, in a garden all very friendly"".
In the first day mom/grandmother/dad should bring the kid for an hour when the group with the tutor comes for walk. Sit near the platform in the field of its review. If the child was fond of new acquaintances or toys, it is possible to try it to leave for 10 minutes. If the kid does not depart from you, then it is better to carry out such manipulation next day, having taken already favourite toy of the baby for games on the platform.
After the child understands that mom will surely return, and will be able on walk in a garden to be left without you, the kid can already try to be brought to group by a breakfast. At this stage will be stay of the child in a garden till a lunch enough. Right after walk before the tutor brings children to group, mom can please the kid with the emergence on the platform. If the behavior of the child was more or less quiet, he at least sat down at a table by a breakfast with other children and did not cry long time, then it is possible to try to leave it for lunch and a quiet time, and to take away before an afternoon snack. If the kid very long cries and does not make contact with the tutor and children, then it is necessary to be separated some more days from it only before the lunch.
Each child idividualen and the adaptation period at everyone has the duration. But sooner or later there comes the period when the kid without problems remains in a garden for all day. Be not upset if for an appreciable length of time the baby with tears leaves you since morning. Many children, even those which already rather long term attend kindergarten hard transfer the parting moment with parents. You do not shout at all and do not abuse the child for it and furthermore do not try to put the ultimatum: ""If you cry, I in general for you will not come"". It is better to try to agree and calm the kid the promise together to spend the rest of day.
Advice to parents:
- in the first day exchange phone numbers with the tutor that if something happens could always contact you quickly;
- in order that it was easier for child to adapt, in advance you will build houses the same daily routine, as well as in kindergarten that early rise, for example, did not become for it an additional stress;
- if the kid very often is ill, then leave him in a garden only for half a day, strengthen immunity folk remedies and try to finish the cure always of the child of the house that there were no complications;
- kindergartens of the different cities of a condition of reception differ: somewhere do not accept children in diapers, and in some preschool institutions skills of independent meal are necessary. Anyway try by the time of receipt in a garden to develop necessary habits in the child. It surely will help the kid to overcome all difficulties of the adaptation period.