Both spouses have to make the decision on the birth of the child, but men less women seek for extension of a sort. Instead of rowing and quarreling, cunning force it to want the kid.
Instruction
1. Respect his opinion. Even if you are strongly upset by the husband's position, do not make scandals, do not blackmail the man and do not throw cruel words. The child's birth a serious step is also required some time that to decide on it. You can help the husband, pushing to adoption of the correct decision.
2. Do not try to become pregnant, thinking "then will get used". The big burden of responsibility which fell down the unprepared man can move him on an abandoning the family. And if remains, the thought of the "unwanted" child can pursue it still long time.
3. Find out the reasons for which he does not want children. The secret reason often is behind standard excuses about the shortage of money and unavailability. It can be the uncertainty in the forces, fear to be forgotten by darling or serious intention never to have children. It is necessary to find individual approach in each case, to be at suitable loss for words and to save the man from his fears.
4. You visit with the husband where there are children. Agree with friends who already have a child that visit them. Do in time time when the kid is in good mood, is not capricious and it is ready for communication. Men communicate with the grown-up children, at the age of 3-4 years easier. Having communicated to the kid, having talked to his father, your husband can want to bring the child.
5. Get support of the family. Parents of the man can express desire to nurse with grandchildren. Talk to his relatives, consult, ask about the help, perhaps, their opinion will be decisive.
6. Hasten it. If the delay reason in unavailability, remind the husband of his biological clock. Every year he becomes more senior, problems with health appear. It is simpler to conceive the healthy and strong kid at young age.