In life of any family there comes the moment when children begin to be rude and capricious. They do not obey, do not eat and do not talk to parents. Parents expect such behavior and do only one – cruelly punish. Sometimes whims demonstrate that the next crisis in development began, but in most cases they are result of the wrong education. There are three most important problems which parents can face.
Instruction
1. Passivity, uneasiness and modesty. Passive children grow up at parents trustees. They are sure that they are clumsy, are not capable and silly on anything. They are afraid of any active actions and experience difficulty with self-expression therefore they become derelicts of a class. What should I do? To write down the child in circles on interests and, at the same time, not to force it to do something violently.
2. Whims and senseless questions. At the child it is full of toys, but he does not want to play with them, and instead he begins to ask questions to already tired parents. He can also pull them, distract and not obey them. Generally to do everything what would draw to him attention of parents. The reason of such behavior is, of course, in a lack of attention. Try at least on an hour a day to play with the kid. Talk to him about its problems and affairs, you share with him about the impressions, read him fairy tales. You remember – the more attention your kid will receive, the probability of his whims is less.
3. Aggression and pathological lie. Such behavior usually appears at children with parents trustees. At such children the feeling constantly develops that they are necessary only when they win and for this reason they cope with it by means of rivalry, physical force and aggression. It is the best of all for parents to pay to the kid as much as possible attention and, of course, to lower a level of the requirements to it.