Development of the child – one of the directions to which parents pay special attention and attach great value. Current trends are that that the child begins to be taught practically since the birth. Technology of reading from the cradle, training in the letter, a molding, the account, etc. – the kid can be engaged by various techniques for hours and hours if it is wanted by parents.
When children grow up a little, the question of the choice of the right direction of further development becomes sharper for parents. Division of circles and classes not only in interests, but also in sex begins. Usually it is necessary parents of boys more difficult. Practically any kind of activity including difficult sports hobbies is suitable for the girl. With boys often the situation is differently since parents very much are afraid to be mistaken and give the child on classes which define as "devchach". And there nearby and to the fact that the child will begin to be teased simply for an improper method of development.
Psychologists assure that only diffident parents can pay attention to these prejudices. Actually, it is necessary to choose those options of classes which the child has more to liking. Therefore it is worth finding a lot of time precisely to solve, where to give the child for further development.
Remember that if your son likes to draw more, than to kick a ball in the field, it does not mean at all that it not such as all "normal" boys. Just it has a bit different internal organization.
Sport
Traditionally boys are given on various sports sections. The hockey, soccer, karate – the list can be listed without stops and very long. Really, the sport very well develops and tempers character of future man. He allows to think more logically, learns not to be lost in difficult situations and at the same time gives the chance to learn to make decisions at the critical moment. Besides, the sport very well affects the state of health of the child and gives the chance to strengthen it if the boy since childhood was frail and hilenky.
Often the sport is a traumatic type of the developing classes therefore from bruises it is impossible to be 100% protected. But there is nothing terrible, slight injuries only temper the boy, turning him into the real man.
Creativity
Naturally, it is worth looking narrowly at the child very attentively. It is possible that the sport is not its elements. Perhaps he likes to draw or write verses more. As the option, the son can perfectly play music and have ideal hearing. In this case it should be given on various creative circles – drawing, singing, music, a molding, etc. To think at the same time that the person disabled, "not real" man will grow up from it, is not necessary. History knows a huge number of examples of the famous singers, artists, composers, etc. whom to call unmanly or any such, just nobody will risk.
What should be considered
First of all, it is necessary to consider opinion of the child. If he goes to classes under pressure, nothing good from this will turn out. And developing such circles it will be very difficult to call. And it is necessary to follow this rule even in case you desperately want that the son was engaged in another matter. Psychologists say that parents also so too often transfer the expectations to children still to force them to be engaged with a great effort not where children would like. To choose the place for classes not and it is difficult. Discuss with the child what he would like to do then start the choice of the place. It is desirable that circles and sections were not really far from the house. That so far the child goes to classes, at him the patience or desire was not gone. The club surely has to be accurate, clean and benevolent. If already on an entrance you meet the muttering administrator and gloomy teachers, it is better to refuse visit of such institution. Approach a question of the choice of circles with all responsibility, and your child will be grateful to you.