Most of psychologists consider the most important qualities of character of the successful person aspiration and will. Education of such qualities is long and laborious work which will surely please you with results.
Develop the motivational sphere. Even the adult not always manages to reach the desirable so help the child to achieve necessary result. Even in case of difficulties teach the child to plan his further steps that as a result everything turned out. The independent and active child, as a rule, perfectly analyzes own motives, he will be able always to answer such question how "for what I need it?"
Strong-willed traits of character are formed all human life therefore parents should teach the child to distribute own efforts that the self-assured child could control the acts. Involving the child in activity in family, parents, on own example can help it to develop diligence and responsibility.
Make his plans for the future together with the child and after a certain term discuss together with it what at it turned out and that is not present. Extremely important stage in achievement of the goals is the victory over laziness therefore you have to constantly teach the child to overcome the laziness. It has to acquire that there are some things which he needs to make most.
The correct relation to the world around promotes the correct social adaptation of the child in society, and the valid and sensitive attitude towards parents, peers and friends contributes to personal development that is when the child respects others, he respects himself.
Such child will have intentions to change the world to the best and to achieve recognition of people around. With the positive relation to the world it is always easier to achieve progress.
We develop will by means of games
Make a peculiar list of desires. The fine technique "Magic seven-petal flower" will help the child to develop will and aspiration. Re-read the fairy tale together with the child, and then suggest it to make the same flower with desires.
Discuss together with it the most significant desires and think that it is possible to undertake in order that these desires to execute. Such way will teach the child not just to receive what is wanted, but also to use the efforts for implementation of the desires.
It is also possible to arrange "a glory wall". Almost each child has the most various diplomas, prizes and diplomas for participation in competitions and competitions. Issue all its achievements on a wall in the living room or its room.
It is also possible to organize "success corner". Such honor roll perfectly raises a children's self-assessment and helps the child to move ahead with the development.