The behavior of children sometimes can discompose even the quietest adult. From these darlings, clean soul of beings we can lose control over by itself. Why the child, becoming is more senior, ceases to listen to the parents? How to fight against disobedience, bad words which unconsciously are said?
If the child snaps, is rude, then it is worth trying to him accurately and to distinctly explain why such words cannot be spoken. You should not grab a belt at all. Small children most often do not realize that they speak, do not understand what is good and what is bad. Children as sponges, absorb both positive, and negative information.
If the child asks you something to buy it, and you refused, then it can develop into unconscious aggression. You should not shout at the kid at once and to say that he this purchase did not deserve. It is worth trying to calm him. Strokings on the head will help to achieve a positive effect. Tell the child that you have few kopeks now that to buy something. Or in advance agree with the kid that in shop will buy him only one candy or a toy no more. Children are rather clever and can understand a lot of things if to talk to them in a silent quiet situation, without shouting also without the categorical ban.
What to do if the child gives delivery or fights? Many children with their unique character can be unpredictable. And quite often modern child does not realize what to fight, it is bad. Therefore it is one of its ways of expression of the discontent. It is necessary to try to explain why so it is impossible to do. For the best assimilation of information the child needs to show a cartoon or to tell the fairy tale related to bad boys who fight. The fairy tale or the animated film have to be in an instructive form. Most likely, the kid should not explain long why it is bad why it is impossible.
This advice will help parents correctly to behave with the child in a certain situation. It is simpler to hit the child, of course, but it will not solve a problem but only it otstrochit it for some time and will be made a fresh start. Therefore it is worth thinking before applying manhandling. Each blow bears in itself a psychological trauma for the child, and this trauma remains at it for the rest of life.