Appearance of the third kid in family imposes on heavy responsibility not only for the new family member, but also for the first children. Now parents should be much more attentive to seniors, it will be very hard for them to understand why the attention of mom and dad is chained to the kid. Therefore, in waiting time of the third kid, you have to be prepared for serious changes properly.
Instruction
1. Think of yourself. You now not only wife and mom of two children, but also pregnant woman. In spite of the fact that the family requires a lot of attention and forces, it is time to reconsider the duties. Talk to members of household, someone has to perform heavy homework for you. Discuss at once that performance of such affairs to be assigned to this family member not only for the period of pregnancy, but also for an infancy of the third kid.
2. Try to spend more time with the husband. When to be born the child, you will not be able to pay to the beloved much attention. Therefore it is necessary to establish respect and mutual understanding in the relations. Try to enjoy expectation of the kid together.
3. Try to constrain the negative emotions. Pregnant women differ in the increased impressionability. But children should not suffer because of your mood. If you break on all family members, then their attitude towards future kid will be not the best.
4. Prepare the senior children for such serious changes. Show their children's photos. They have to understand, as were absolutely small, and you paid them also a lot of attention.
5. Solve with relatives which of them will take care of the senior children. But keep in mind that to accustom kids that they should spend the main part of the time not with you it is necessary in advance. For example, if care of them is undertaken by the grandmother, then let during your pregnancy her walk with them. It is necessary in order that children did not feel sharp change.
6. Try to have a rest properly before childbirth. Cares of the newborn demand many forces therefore it is necessary to get enough sleep in ""advance payment"".
7. Buying things for future kid, take children. Let they will choose gifts for the new family member. It not only will unite you, but also will keep to look forward to addition in family.