For the kid it is very important to feel the help and support of adults. Otherwise he cannot satisfy the needs for protection and love fully.
Instruction
1. That your child trusted you and did not keep negative experiences in himself, did not remain alone with the fears and offenses, learn the correct communication with the son or the daughter. Categorically it is impossible to tell humiliating things at other people or to take indulgent tone. Do not lecture the son or the daughter in public, wait to the house.
2. Pay to the child enough attention. Because of its shortcoming the kid can begin to be capricious or go into hysterics. The fact is that he feels abandoned, insignificant and unnecessary. Even if you are busy, it is possible to find a way to show that you love, appreciate the child that you are glad to it. For example, entrust it some simple work, ask to bring something, to give, take.
3. You should not compare the child to other kid. Your son or the daughter are unique. They have advantages which depreciate when comparing. Instead prompt as it is better to get along with any given case, note progress of the kid and develop his independence, showing readiness to help if necessary. Such actions raise a self-assessment.
4. You should not treat behavior of the child too crucially. Allow it to make sometimes let the incorrect, but independent choice. Let the kid feel like the personality capable of independent decisions.
5. Do not play a trick on the son or the daughter, do not think out nicknames which belittle the child or can seem offensive. Your kid did not deserve that parents ego-tripped at his expense.
6. Some parents easily make promises to children, and then easy forget to keep the word. As a result the kid is disappointed, offended and feels deceived. The fact that for you it seems a trifle, for the child, perhaps, very important. Especially it concerns joint pastime.