Today considerable responsibility for education of children lies after all on the woman. She in the majority undertakes obligations for care for the newborn. The man is a getter, and with the birth of the kid he has to increase "production" considerably. Though It should be noted that this trend gradually becomes obsolete. It is very often possible to meet now fathers who with pleasure go on a maternity leave and devote all the time to beloved offsprings.
Actually it is very important to kid to feel that both mom and dad care for him. Ideally care of both parents has to be present at equal shares. In that case mom and dad look as complementary each other the mechanism. For example, the kid perceives mom as a part of. He so got used to be with it in close proximity that cannot recognize its right for autonomous existence yet. Dad, on the contrary, represents the certain messenger who came from the outside world.
It follows from this that dad can open for the child the road to the world. It can tell and show to the baby as a lot of things are arranged around. And all this will be made in the form of a game. In general it is much simpler to fathers to cope with this task. So they are suited that for development of the kid use the whole world. In many respects thanks to the father the child begins to learn logical laws, relationships of cause and effect. Dad is capable to teach the child of cogitative activity quicker.
You should not forget that the role of dad in education of the child is also important when forming moral and ethical principles. So, for example, bringing up the daughter, dad as the very first man in life of the girl has to show it the attitude of the real man to a female. So the baby will be able to create the own representation based on worthy behavior of the father. You can be sure that in the future such girl will feel much less disappointment when forming personal relations.
The personal example of the father and in education of the son is not less important. In this case dad will be able to help to be created to strong, strong, hardy and courageous character of the young defender. If the technique of education is chosen correctly, and all this will be supported with a personal example, then be sure that that real man of whom women so dream will grow up from your kid.
It is necessary to understand that dad is not just a person who provides family and comes to the rescue of mom only when she demands it. Dad has to take the same active part in the child's life. It has to occur from the very first days of life of the baby. And let at an initial stage you will not be able to receive for it any official message of thanks. However over time you realize as your opinion is important for the child. Trusting relationship between parents and children – pledge of family happiness and harmonious personal development.