The demotivating is some kind of punishment. It is designed to show to the individual that he acts incorrectly. Sometimes by means of a demotivating the most various aims are pursued: from impact on opinion of the person before decrease in its spirit.
Demotivating methods
Resort to a demotivating when want to punish somehow the person, to show that he is wrong. It is possible to make it by means of constant suggestion that the individual is unworthy what has that he is insufficiently good that his ideas do not deserve attention.
Sometimes as a demotivator serves ignoring of the person. When it is not perceived seriously when nobody hurries to agree with thoughts of this individual, he can also begin to doubt in own correctness and the importance.
The direct criticism, sometimes even not constructive, serves as a demotivator too. When to the person constantly point to his mistakes and offenses when concentrate on his shortcomings, to the individual it becomes difficult to work with former eagerness. The lack of a praise can sometimes be method of a demotivating just. If before people constantly got compliments concerning the actions or a job, and then suddenly ceases to hear positive reviews and to find signs of admiration, its self-assessment can fall, and the individual is capable to think of whether everything is correct he does. The lack of support can be referred to demotivatsionny methods too. Happens that one person does not agree with the friend or the family member. He does not express the doubts, does not cause a controversy over an occasion of disagreements, does not prevent to act to other individual, but also does not render him assistance which that so needs. When the employer wants to demotivate the employee, he can cut down him an award or not give it at all. Also various collectings – material and administrative – and even salary delays belong to the demotivatsionny methods applied to personnel.
Self-demotivating
Happens that the person demotivates himself. People who constantly doubt themselves and hesitate because of a low self-assessment on any new steps, lose the personal growth or receiving some benefits. Also excessive self-criticism belongs to methods of a demotivating of the person. When the individual abuses himself for any miss and hardly forgives himself mistakes, it is more difficult for it to move further on a course of life and to gain victories further. One more way to demotivate itself – it is constant to compare own person to other people. At you hands can fall and deteriorate a spirit if this comparison happens not in your advantage. Various deprivations and strict punishments to which the person in relation to himself resorts also weaken his will to win and limit internal freedom.