Not all people are allocated with by nature beautiful appearance. It is a lot of those who cannot brag the person with thin, correct lines, a faultless figure. But whether it is necessary to be upset, worry because of it?
Instruction
1. Even fantastically beautiful person can be dishonourable or simply stupid. Besides, beauty is not eternal. Much more important character of the person, his education, habits. That is, the main thing in the person is internal beauty.
2. "Clothes do not make the man". This old saying is known to some people. Really, the person with beautiful appearance who is effectively dressed can draw attention at once. But if its inner world does not correspond to external data, the attitude of people around towards him will quickly exchange. The lack of mind, warm-heartedness, education and tactfulness cannot be filled due to only one beauty.
3. For this reason quite often there is, apparently, a paradoxical situation: the dazzling beauty in a magnificent dress, with a faultless make-up, does not draw attention of men, and for the modest, silent lady of very average exterior which is not strikingly dressed (classical "gray mouse"), boyfriends curl. Actually, everything is clear and natural. If the beauty selfish, cold and haughty, she just frightens off surrounding men. And "the gray mouse" can have the mass of advantages, literally radiate warm, kind aura, that is to be internally beautiful.
4. Goodwill, mercy, ability to compassion, tactfulness, readiness to disinterestedly help other person, - here the main qualities which it is inherent in the person with internal beauty. Such people do not make unworthy acts, avoid irritability, envy, self-love. They think not only of themselves, but also of others, try not to burden people around, not to put them in an awkward situation before others.
5. Internal beauty is also readiness and desire of the person to work on itself, to increase the merits and to get rid of shortcomings, to create good deeds, without demanding any award and even just laudatory words. The person beautiful internally does good because it is demanded by his nature. He cannot live in a different way! For the same reason he will not make meanness, will not palter. It is possible to rely on such people, they are very reliable and faithful companions.
6. Certainly, any person, even the most worthy, cannot be ideal and represent a standard of internal beauty. However if desired and diligence each person can become better, kinder. For this purpose it is only necessary to set the object and to go to it, despite everything.