Mothers and fathers want to see only high qualities in the child. But it depends in many respects on parents. Education plays a large role in life of the kid. Depends on it as far as he will trust mom and dad; as will strongly love animals, study; whether it will have friends and what it will be on character. Perhaps, he will be a hooligan, but intelligent and loving. Or, on the contrary, will be quiet and peaceful, and in soul at it - the whole storm of emotions.
Instruction
1. There is an opinion that for the excellent childhood the child needs chess, skis and a cat with a dog. These objects will help it to become clever, sports, loving and feeling pity. But without the aid of parents not to manage here.
2. For good education the parents need patience. Try to abuse only for good reason, but not for each small offense. The poured tea on a table or the cat smeared by sour cream yet not a reason for big scandal. The child thus learns the world. If you do not like its actions, quietly explain it to him. Tell that you are upset that all sour cream will be eaten now by a cat, and you with him will get nothing.
3. You do not speak to the child at abuse of a phrase "you eternally" or "you again". Your child good always, just now he was guilty a little. Therefore and you say that today he is guilty in volume and its today's act absolutely did not please you.
4. Do not encourage fears of the child. Do not call him "little coward", and, especially, you do not tease him and do not frighten by what he is afraid of. Try to treat calmly his fears, then they will be gone.
5. Do not criticize other people at the child. Thus, your kid will respect seniors and strangers. And you will never hear from him a bad word in your address.
6. When your child comes back from walk or from school, always meet his houses. So he will be sure that you are glad to it even then when he was guilty of something.
7. During week-end make "days without remarks". Offensively if your family walk is spoiled by constant remarks to the child. In such days not only the child, but also you will have a rest from the reproaches.
8. Every morning begin joyfully. You speak to the child "good morning" every day even if he wakes up in bad mood. You should not wait for the answer from it, do not begin new day with curses.