Education of the child — one of the major purposes for parents. His further life will depend on it, what person he will grow up and what place will take in society.
Any parents want their child to grow up the well-mannered person, and for this purpose it is necessary to make many efforts. First of all, parents have to set a good example to the child. The parent is obliged to be the polite and honest, kind and sympathetic, understanding and friendly person if he wants his child to be the same.
Some parents do not follow such rules, and as a result the child repeats the same behavior model and then parents are surprised why their child does not behave properly. The senior generation is obliged to set a good example, otherwise education will not make any sense.
Process of education of the child — very long and labor-consuming. It includes many factors, for example, such as: politeness in relation to people around, self-confidence, responsibility for the acts and many other things.
First of all, parents have to be consecutive in education of the child. Any encouragement or the ban on some actions has to repeat day by day. If not to carry out it, then the child will understand that the established rules are optional, and will begin to violate them.
It is very important to encourage the child for any merits and achievements in in what he likes to be engaged. Thereby he will understand that it at it turns out and will begin to do favorite thing more diligently. It is so possible to choose a hobby or even future profession for the child subsequently.
Certainly, encouragement is important aspect in education of the child, but punishment also has to be present. If not to use it, the child will not understand what cannot be done and why. But it is very important to choose adequate punishment. It has to be proportional to its act. The child cannot be intimidated and brought up only at all shout because it can lead to deplorable consequences.
It is very important to give to the child a certain independence in the actions. In some moments it is possible to provide him the choice and if it is wrong, the child will understand it and will study on the mistakes. Such independence in the choice will result further in confidence in the actions and responsibility for the acts.
Self-confidence is the most important trait of character of any person and to put it in the child, many efforts will be required.
It is impossible to compare the child at all to others because it can create the wrong opinion on others and itself. It is better to compare him to the one whom he was yesterday and whom is today. It will help it to understand, to behave properly in some situations.