Small children need a big range of emotions for normal mental development which is affected by a number of external factors – both positive, and negative. And as the world of the baby is, first of all, parents, they are responsible for all emotions which are experienced by the kid.
Unfortunately, not all parents try to self-improve in education of the child. Thereof the grown-up kid for whom there are practically no bans receives total freedom of actions and begins to subordinate parents in the whims.
Desire of parents to put it in the center of family will have pernicious effect on mental development of the child. Such children grow up the egoists who are not understanding inner world of another.
What mistakes can parents make, bringing up future member of society?
- The first mistake – desire to sponsor and preserve the child against everything. Such mothers and fathers headlong rush to the child at the first sounds of crying, try to feed often and many, being afraid that he is malnourished. In the fall and in the winter excessively muffle up in warm clothes, undertake execution of many affairs which the child is able to do for a long time (and has to) to do. In the future such parents will solve whom to it to be and whom to marry. What as a result? The weak-willed, weak whiner or, on the contrary, the aggressive personality grows up. Both – a tear in education.
- The second mistake – nedolyubov. Youth and immaturity of parents in issues of education, unwanted pregnancy and also the birth of children with various pathologies can become the reason of such attitude towards own children. In such cases the kid stands apart from all, becomes reserved, feels superfluous in family.
- The third mistake – Spartan Megainsistence of parents, the numerous bans erect a huge wall which manages to be overcome not always between children and their parents.
- The fourth problem – inability of parents to forgive to prank. The punishment which followed a bad act up to the end does not solve a problem. The kid is allegedly forgiven, but at the first opportunity remembered and begins to be reproached. It is necessary to remember that when choosing a measure of punishment it is necessary to consider age of the child.
Wednesday in which children grow has to be emotionally saturated (moderately), exclude irritants (alcoholism, alcoholism of parents, constant scandals) and to be based on friendship, respect and love.