When all efforts connected with the birth of the kid behind there is a question how to call the child. What to be guided by, choosing a name: beauty of sounding, fashion or memory of the friend? Irrespective of the motives, try that the chosen option made your child happy.
Instruction
1. There are no exact instructions as it is correct to make it. In ancient times everything was much simpler – people were guided by the calendar, naming the child a name of the Saint celebrating a name-day this day. But these times sank into oblivion, there came the new age of freedom of choice.
2. Choosing a name to the child, do not forget about what this word of people hears most often throughout life. Any name represents a combination of the sounds of various height which are a certain irritant for a human brain. Under the influence of these sounds there is a formation of character of the child. For example, names, firm, rigid on sounding, such as Zhanna, Dina, Igor and Dmitry, develop persistence and obstinacy, independence, independence and determination in the carrier. The easy, soft, said drawlingly names can guarantee the appeasable and obedient child in advance. If you want that your kid was quiet, call by his such name as Svetlana, Irina, Natalya, Mikhail, Vera, Sergey, Alexey and Alexander.
3. It is good if the name is easily remembered and said. Also it has to be combined with a middle name harmoniously. Difficult uttered combinations can become a hindrance for communication since will cause nervousness in the one who addresses, and embarrassment at that whom address. In the end result it can bring sufferings to your child, especially at vulnerable children's age, having provoked development of an inferiority complex.
4. It is not less important that the name and a middle name were harmoniously combined with each other, were softly said and were not difficult for perception. Selecting a name, try to say all considered options aloud. You feel a difference at once, saying, for example, Alexey Mikhaylovich and Dmitry Stanislavovich. Harmonious sounding will be only provided that the accent in both words falls on a syllable, identical on the account, and on a joint of words there is no large number of vowels or consonants.
5. You should not choose the name which is sharply contrasting with a surname. For example, the combination of a beautiful rare name to the most ordinary surname will be ridiculous and ridiculous to sound. It is unlikely your daughter will be glad to be, for example, Ariadna Sidorova.
6. It is better to choose a name to which it is possible to pick up a diminutive-hypocoristic form. So, it is possible to name Alexander by Sashenka, Sanechka or Shurik.
7. The name should not cause in people unpleasant associations at all. You should not doom the child to a difficult life, calling him in honor of any significant event or the great person. Revolution, the Olympic Games, Stalin or Napoleon – not the best options of a name for the child. Also it is not necessary to call the kid in honor of favourite filmstars or great people, especially at coincidence of a middle name or surname. The child can not correspond to a big name that can cause subsequently sneers of people around.
8. You should not give in to temptation to call the son in honor of the father or the daughter a name of mother. It will create great difficulties in communication, it will be very difficult for them to find a common language. Identical name and a middle name threaten the child with imbalance and the increased irritability. It is connected with the fact that the inherited traits of character from parents, especially at repetition of names, repeatedly amplify and get a negative shade.
9. Also you should not name the child of the late relatives or those from them who lived a difficult life. Do not risk happiness of the child, he should not repeat others destiny.