Whether to buy any given thing to the child? Many parents face this question. Some purchases can be simply useless, and others can do harm to the child. Therefore, it is worth thinking properly before making the decision.
Instruction
1. TV. Absolutely unnecessary purchase for the child is a separate TV to its room. You do not want your child senselessly to stare in the screen, damaged to itself eyesight and was subject to excess weight. And the couple of hours for viewing animated films or children's transfers can be allocated also on the family TV.
2. Smartphone. The smartphone, iPod and other electronics do not do the child cleverer. And they cost little not. More likely, it is a way to compete among children, which of them more abruptly. Write down the child in sports section. Let him be proud of the achievements in sport, but not abrupt phone.
3. Expensive clothes. To the small child absolutely all the same, how much is his jacket or trousers. He can also soil both expensive, and cheaper clothes. If the teenager elicits at you expensive jeans or sneakers, then it is not necessary to buy at once to him what he asks even if you are able to afford it. It is possible to try to agree that if to it buy a desirable thing, then it should be limited in something another, for example, in pocket money. The teenager has to realize that money does not come easily. Perhaps, he will even want to earn them.
4. Trifles. It is not necessary to buy to the child any trifle which he will ask even if it is cheap. Indulging all whims of the child, it is possible to do him harm. The whimsical and prodigal person will grow up from it in a consequence.
5. It is a lot of toys. The more you buy to the child of toys, the more he asks. Usually, if the child has many toys, then they quickly bother him, he ceases to appreciate them and even begins them to break specially. Try to hide periodically some toys, then to get and hide others. So he will forget about them for a while, and then they will become interesting to him as "new".
6. Cruel video games. Recently cases of manifestation of aggression and cruelty among the children playing video games became more frequent. You watch what games are played by your children, and buy by it the games developing thinking and logic.