You had a kid. Now you have a lot of time which you will spend together. The first 30 days - the period of special responsibility, the most disturbing, long-awaited and touching.
At last your meeting with the child took place. New life, the new person, new character appeared in your house. So it is necessary to consider that the meeting of the new family member took place joyfully, carefree and happily.
The first 4 weeks there is an acquaintance to the outside world. The newborn gets used by Wednesday in which he should live, adapts to new sounds and feelings. During this period of life it is very important to adjust a dream and feeding of the child. The newborn will see off in a dream till 20 o'clock in day. For the first month the kid will grow up approximately on 3 cm and will put on weight about 300 g. It is obvious that for feeding of the child, the best option is maternal milk. When mom of milk has not enough, it is necessary to see a doctor for recommendations about stimulation of a lactation.
From development of nervous system congenital reflexes will help. Some of them will disappear in the course of growing, others will be transformed to the acquired reflexes. In the first month at the kid distinguish 7 reflexes:
- grasping (it is possible to observe when stroking a palm, the child tries, kind of to hold everything that appears at it in the handle);
- search (the kid turns if to touch his cheek, kind of looks for a breast);
- sosatelny (it is shown if to carry out about lips by a pacifier);
- a reflex Mora (the child parts handles and legs in response to a loud sound);
- Babkin's reflex (at a nazhimaniye to the child on a palm it turns a head and slightly opens a mouth);
- a swimming reflex (it is shown at the child's vykladyvaniye on a stomach, the kid does the movements similar to swimming);
- a walking reflex (at support it under hands the kid does the movements similar to walking).
In the first month of life at newborns sense organs actively develop. The child can watch a subject. For example, if the child lies on a back and to show him a bright toy or a rattle, at the same time very slowly to move it, the kid fixes on it the look. By 4th week of life of the movement of eyeballs become more and more coordinate.
During the second week of life the child already reacts to various sounds. Your kid will react to an unexpected sound with start or blinking.
And already by the end 4 weeks of life, the child is capable to react to parents, he can smile! Most likely, the first smile of your kid will be his reply to your tender address or stroking.
The more you will say tender, kind words to the child, the quicker he will reciprocate to you. Very important in family to have and keep a positive background of your emotions all the time. In emotionally successful families it is much easier for child to grow the balanced, self-assured person!