The guy's outposts with the best friend in one bed, in the head of the girl one hundred thoughts rush. To make the decision how to arrive, it is impossible, being shocked and offended. Time for revaluation of the event is required.
Having found the girlfriend with the guy in one bed, 70% of all girls prefer to leave the room silently. And somewhat this action is the most faithful. How to arrive further, depends on circumstances.
What to do with the girlfriend
If the girlfriend appeared in one bed with your guy, then it is worth thinking, whether and the girlfriend it in general. Relatives and dear people do not go for such treachery. Perhaps to delete the girlfriend from the circle of contacts will be the best decision. So will remind nothing of treachery.
If friendly feelings in you are stronger, than offense and rage, then it is worth talking to the girlfriend about her actions. In a quiet situation when you cease to be angry and mentally to think over the plan to sweep, discuss with it the event. Try to understand motives of its actions that pushed it to such step. If the rage and offense in you are too strong, then do not try to revenge in a temper. Small rest will be the best decision. Spend several days in the distance from traitors. For example, in the country. You do not call angry messages to the girlfriend, you do not call her, try to forget about her. Exhaust on something another. For example, in power exercises.
What to do with the guy
50% of girls, according to experts, leave apostates at once. Especially as a blow was struck not only of the Decision to leave – not always only true in such ticklish situation, but precisely the simplest. Surely inform the guy of parting. Depends on it how correct and final will be your decision. Other 50% of girls can forgive to the apostate such treachery. Also there is it great moral efforts. First, the guy not only betrayed romantic feelings, but also served as the catalyst for destruction of female friendship. Secondly, the behavior of the guy after such exposure can be unpredictable. You monitor reaction of the young man. If he feels the guilt, then will make everything to deserve forgiveness. And if he considers the behavior normal, then, perhaps, it is worth refusing such relations. Double treachery it is difficult to forgive, but it is quite possible. When emotions cease, try to weigh everything, to look at a situation with a fresh pair of eyes, to understand motives and girlfriends, and the guy. Do not make rash acts in a temper. Discuss a situation with traitors, try to listen to them. That emotions ceased quicker, abstract from the event. For example, actively be engaged in the study or work, devote more time to the hobby.