The unwillingness to study meets at children and teenagers of different age. It can be connected with many reasons, but parents are disturbed first of all by the solution of this problem.
The two in the diary, are ringing from the class teacher, constant fatigue - all this accompanies unwillingness childof to go in school and to do house homework. It is necessary to fight against it to parents, and shout and abuse in this case are absolutely useless. Try to find out the reason. Them can be much - the conflict with the teacher, problems with schoolmates, misunderstanding of one or several objects, and also banal laziness. If problems in the teacher, then safely go to school and communicate with him directly. Find out sources of hostility and look for an exit from current situation. Problems with schoolmates are solved by convocation of great meeting and discussion of the personal relations of children at their presence (all this becomes with the assistance of the class teacher). If your child does not understand any subject, then it is worth thinking of tutoring. First of all address the teacher - most likely he will not deny to you assistance. The laziness is often shown at children of teenage age. Find out in what its reason. Perhaps, the child is overloaded with numerous circles, repetitorstvo and sections. In that case discuss with him what he would like to refuse. The main thing, do not insist on the - it on everything has the opinion which it needs to allow to state. If the laziness is not connected with something concrete, then it is necessary to start formation of motivation. The motivation of your child should not come down to a cash bonus for each received five. For a start explain for what in general study is necessary: it is erudition, good work and the salary in the future, and today - respect and trust of peers. Not superfluous following the results of a year will carry out one desire of your child, let him aspire to something. Perform homework together. Within fight against laziness and misunderstanding you sit down together with the child at performance of tasks several evenings in a row. It will be pleasant to it to realize that parents will always come to the rescue. In addition you can understand to it difficult tasks and will spend with the child superfluous a couple of hours.