The situation with kindergartens in our country is so critical that obliges to put the child on a waiting list nearly next day after the birth. However, as soon as time to send the child to a garden approaches, at parents problems with competent authorities begin.
Time to conquer the big world
It seems, quite recently the kid was born, learned to go, speak, independently to put on. And today came it is time to send him to kindergarten, to it 2.5-3 years were executed. Of course, by this moment young mummy already very much yearned on work, she wants to return to the life, to society, again daily to do a make-up, laying, it is beautiful to put on. And quicker to send the kid to kindergarten.
And it is quite normal. Only a small amount of modern women suits a role of the housewife. With daily washings, ironing, gotovka and other attributes of "master's" life. After all, she fulfilled the sacred duty, so to speak a social and civic duty. Gave birth to the child, grew up him to certain age. The kindergarten waits!
We train the kid for a garden
Now came it is time to acquaint accurately the kid with society, to acquaint and teach him to live and interact with collective. To show that except mom, the grandmother and the playground there is other world. And it sometimes difficult, sometimes unclear and sometimes cruel. But in it it is necessary to learn to live, make friends, to enjoy trifles, to obey tutors while mom will not be near and at the right moment for her you will not hide. It is necessary to make decisions independently. Before sending the child to a garden, begin to train him morally. Every day explain to him what it will do there, cause pictures in his imagination. Tell about a garden only good, but at the same time place emphasis that mom will be not with it, and at work, instead of it – tutors and children. Not all children are ready to a garden when time comes. There is such concept – "nesadovsky child". In this case longer adaptation is required. But that there were no such problems, it is worth thinking initially how to behave with the kid and it is correct to accustom to communication with peers.
How to rise on turn in kindergarten?
Approximately in the first several months after the birth, visit department of education in the place of residence and put the kid on a waiting list in preschool educational institution. Not to stand kilometer turns, electronic service where on the special portal it is possible to fill in the application form is created, to enter the data, number and a series of documents and to control the position in turn. Before it, of course, it is necessary to choose preschool institution to which you would like to send the kid. It is possible to choose several gardens. Consider the location for a moment when to the kid comes it is time to go to a kindergarten, suddenly you will overeat. Especially it is relevant for tenants. If in your area several gardens, just in case get up on turn in everything.
There are no places – what to do?
And here, at last, time has come! In the specified time you come to department of education, and speak to you – there are no places. Your indignation does not have a limit! You already planned everything, at work wait, you were adjusted to changes in life. What to do? Where to complain? First of all calm down and do not break firewood, do not make rows, it you will achieve nothing. In disputes with state institutions the sober mind and cold mind is necessary. For a start try to find out from the employee: for what reason there is no place and ask as to you to arrive that the place after all appeared. In general ask many correct questions. A keyword – correct. That is purposeful and open, that is not assuming the terse answer. Put yourself to the place of this employee. What person will want to be helped you? To what pours curses and goes into hysterics or open, but confused really needing the help. Well, and if the real concrete at which, as they say, you will not get got to you: answers questions it is evasive and is terse, it is impossible to move to pity, be not humiliated. With self-respect go to the chief or any higher official. There try to attract attention, still cold and prudently. Just as a tank – go directly towards the aim, - you need to receive the place in kindergarten. In parallel learn a real situation in kindergarten, go to the manager. Possibly cunning, having offered the help to its institution, find out – whether there are places in kindergarten. Having collected all information, write complaints everywhere where it is only possible: in department of education, in administration – everywhere where will be able and are obliged to help to understand. You knock and will open for you. There is an option to address the deputy at the place of residence (such are available in each district of any city). And also to appeal to it to help. It is, of course, too a lottery, but happens works. Remember that anyway, have to respond to any your statement. It is the law, your rights as citizen of the country, and you have to know and understand them. No pain, no gain. Therefore, act! Write, you call, just torture them questions. Finally, one more council – you go all to too department of education more often. Often happens that turns are updated, are somehow nullified, owing to movement, eliminations of children on gardens. Perhaps in that garden for which you apply by itself room will be made.