Aggression is quite frequent phenomenon at children, it is shown in different forms and in different occasions, but it does not mean that it is necessary to close eyes to it.
There is a set of types of children's aggression. In infancy children usually bite mother for a breast. Since a year he can scoff at pets. In two or three years the child breaks everything and breaks, accompanying all with wild shouts.
At five-year age the aggression is connected with the fact that the child gets into collective, in kindergarten. There all seems to it strange and, naturally, new. The child wants to fence off himself and the personal space therefore there are some problems of relationship with other children. Of course, at most of children over time it passes, they learn to reach compromise. But there are also such individuals who too sharply react to other children, and their aggression can be proved by nothing. In such cases, really, it is necessary to approach this question with understanding, gravity and heavy responsibility.
Quite frequent phenomenon in a day nursery when the child bites other children. This normal phenomenon, it is not necessary to do from this the tragedy and to think that your child abnormal. On the contrary, it is quite explainable in terms of psychology. At this age children learn the world taktilno, they try to lick something, to suck or bite. But, as a rule, at the same time parents are often very dissatisfied with such aggressive behavior of the child. In such cases it is necessary to explain intelligibly and delicately to the kid that it is impossible to bite other children that from it is sick and unpleasant to them. Some parents, without wishing to potter long with explanations, simply bite the children that on this example the child understood that it is sick. But so it is impossible to do. Yes, he will not bite others any more, but it can wound very much him mentality.
Not less frequent phenomenon when the child fights with other children. Why it occurs? The conflicts between small children can arise for various reasons: did not divide a toy, someone touched someone, told an offensive word and many other things. The fact that your child tries to protect himself and to restore justice, it, of course, is good, but only in case he does it correctly and adequately. And if the child is spoiling for a fight at any opportunity at once – it is already not so good. That to avoid it, or to eliminate, it is necessary to talk to the child, to explain to him what so cannot be done that it is wrong and ugly. It is also necessary to find out the reasons why the child arrives quite so, but not differently. Perhaps, it is necessary to save him from bad influence of some animated films or not to set such example to children.
Of course, not always aggression of the child can be eliminated with talk alone because children are different. Sometimes the reason of such behavior of the child is in his mental health. Then it is necessary to address children's psychologists, naturally. Also be sure – they surely will help you.