Sometimes it happens so that the quiet and friendly child becomes angry and aggressive. He rolls up hysterics out of the blue, breaks toys, is rude to parents. In such situation it is necessary to understand the reasons of aggression and to eliminate them. Unlike adults, the child will not always be able to explain why he becomes angry.
Instruction
1. If the child is angry, cries out offensive phrases, then it is impossible to answer his acts with rage at all. It is necessary to get it together and to try not to raise the voice on the angered lad. All his rage and all his offensive words are a manifestation of internal aggression which reason you should understand. Having made the child silent, having shouted at him, you can involuntarily push him to other ways of expression of the discontent.
2. If the child shows aggression, you should not respond to it with slaps in the soft place. If you dare to hit the offspring, then he will only be approved in correctness of the behavior.
3. Reconsider the relations in family. Children, like a sponge, absorb both good, and bad. Perhaps, the child, looking at how adults sort out the relations with voices raised, just copies their behavior. If you have in the house constant abuse, be not surprised to the fact that the child shows aggression.
4. Teach the child to express the emotions in a different way. For example, if the offspring says that he hates you instead of shouting in reply, try to paraphrase what he said. Tell, for example, the following: "It is not pleasant to you that I do not allow to go for a walk?". After that reason the ban. The child will acquire that instead of crying out offensive words, it is possible to express discontent more correctly, having sounded its reason.
5. Do not make concessions if the child openly expresses discontent and tries to incline your decision in own favor. If you follow his tastes, flashes of aggression will arise much more often. The child quickly will understand that you can be manipulated, and will use it as self-evident.
6. If the child too often is angry, shows aggression, expresses the discontent, surely consult with the children's psychologist. Children very often, without knowing how to express the feelings, splash out the negative emotions on people around. It is possible that the child suffers from a lack of your attention. Try to spend with it more time, show that you love it and need it. Children very sensitively react to sincere emotions, and it is very probable that flashes of rage will stop soon.