Education of the child occupies a huge niche in life of each parent. One of the most important aspects of education is sexual growing of the child. This question needs to pay special attention.
Masturbation
Sex education always concerned parents. It is sometimes connected with the fact that in their time were not interested in this question sometimes just because not each parent knows how to start talking about sexual growing to the child. The problem is that people do not call things by their proper names. We can hear words: "it", "you had it", instead of one word "sex". Everything begins with concealment of the fact of sexual intercourses between adults, already it in a root is wrong.
Masturbation as scientists already proved, positively affects health of the woman, in particular if she the long period has no sex. Therefore there is nothing terrible in children's masturbation.
Everything begins with the simple interest of the child. Many in a garden begin to be interested in genitals of boys and girls. Children learn the world in all its manifestations, and there is nothing terrible in it. Usually, the first time masturbation occurs unconsciously. The girl as though has some not clear desire. Happens that, studying the genitals, the kid will feel something pleasant. After the first time the child quite consciously begins to masturbate.
What should I do?
Task of each parent not to punish the girl for it. In general, it is impossible to offend the child, especially without the reason. If you noticed that the child masturbates, then and other person can notice it too. Therefore talk to the child. Whether ask vulvar lips itch at the girl whether there are no wounds there or something similar. There are situations when masturbation - only the investigation of sick genitals, even at little girls can be the milkwoman. If the child is really sick, immediately conduct him to the doctor, begin treatment. If the reason consists in receiving pleasure, then you need to explain to the girl that it really happens. Try to tell what waits for it in the future why she wants to be engaged in it why it is pleasant to it. Remember that sex and masturbation are two integral processes which are necessary for female health. The most important, explain to the child that it is impossible to masturbate in public and in public places at all. Explain that it is possible to be engaged in similar things only in the lonely place. Your main task is to bring up the girl so that she understood why it is impossible to have sex with the first boy why it is impossible to masturbate when someone looks at it. For this purpose since childhood you teach the child to etiquette and set own example, in particular it concerns mothers. After 12 years, possibly earlier, with the child it is necessary to lead discussions which will tell about sexual intercourse, about why two adults have sex. Also you should not place emphasis that sex is necessary only to conceive the child and to fulfill a conjugal duty. Try to tell as much as possible frankly the child as there takes place process and in what its essence, but do not forget that it is the child.