The child with pleasure goes to the first class, being able to read and consider, he likes to be engaged. What occurs then why interest in knowledge acquisition dies away? Being indignant with a scribble in notebooks and outstanding homeworks, many parents complain of unwillingness of children to study.
The main thing – it is impossible to neglect process. Not important, to what class your child – the first or final goes, try to understand the reasons of absence at it of interest in study. Among them there can be a fatigue which is especially shown in the third quarter, material misunderstanding, boredom, teenage love, problems in the relations with peers or teachers. Remember that bad marks are not an occasion to abuse the child, and a signal for parents that it needs to be helped: to deal with a training material, to think together, to prompt the course of a solution, to make so that the negative of a bad note was erased as soon as possible.
For the kid an important role is played by the schedule. When the child goes to school, try to keep a certain rhythm of life to which he got used. That the naughty kid turned into the diligent pupil, time and parental patience is necessary. The informative activity of the younger school student has wavy character. The periods of persistent classes alternate with the periods of "unwillingness" to study. First graders acquire knowledge by means of rhythmic games, verses better. To be engaged in one type of activity longer, than half an hour, so far for them is difficult. Therefore, performing homeworks, take a ten-minute break for rest.
Agree with the child about time when he studies and when watches animated films, goes for a walk or plays houses. Do not leave the kid in private with lessons, even just your presence will help it to cope with work independently. When it is necessary to remember something, to learn rules, think out rhymes, use improvised objects, ask questions. If you watch together informative transmissions about science, the nature, then look for interesting information in Internet. Classes should not be boring for the pupil of elementary school, but he has to know well: at first lessons, then entertainments. Study on average and the senior link coincides with a certain period of growing of the child. To call for discipline of the teenager - it is difficult. He refuses values of parents, feels like the adult. Strictly imposing the methods, you will encounter only resistance. Allow him to try different options of doing homework, preparation for lessons, but demand result. You praise it more often, induce to independence. Attention to problems and experiences of the teenager, continuous dialogue between you – important components of your communication during this period. Be an example for the growing-up son or the daughter, avoid at their presence of negative statements about an education system, about uselessness of training, etc. Contradictions between words and acts of adults children of this age grab very quickly.