Children not always play with each other peacefully and quietly. Quite often they swear among themselves, "are called", also a fight can break out. But it is signs of such phenomenon as natural children's aggression. Other business when the child is aggressive excessively when he does not get on with anybody of peers, and fights take place nearly daily. Then it is necessary to find out where aggression sources.
The children's aggression represents itself manifestation of emotions of rage, rage, anger. To cope with children's aggression, it is necessary to understand why in soul of the child there are these feelings. Most often roots disappear in behavior of adults. It can be: • Indifference of parents to the child or constant negative assessment of his actions; • For his offenses, and both physical, and psychological punishment can result the drastic measures of punishment of the child which are constantly taken in family in identical results; • Promotion of aggressive behavior of the child with parents in relation to people and animals. In fight against children's aggression learn to distinguish its external signs. At the angered kid fists are clenched, the person accepts fierce expression, all body strains. If you see such signs at the child, try to remove his negative emotions to the peaceful course. Suggest to cry out, for example, in the empty room all claims to the offender; allow it to beat a piece of upholstered furniture or a pillow; to write on the sheet of paper all offensive words which he wants to say, and then to tear this leaf. The small child can suggest to draw the anger that it remained on paper. To the children inclined to aggression, it is necessary to create the conditions demanding the increased physical activity: to write down in sports section or to create houses a sports corner. Physical activity promotes adrenaline emission, but this emission will do to nobody harm. Arrange role-playing games with the child: boys with delight play "war", proving the force and bravery to the imagined enemy (in this case – to you). It is periodically necessary to change roles that the child had an opportunity, having stayed as the victim, to estimate as aggression manifestations are unpleasant. The main thing – be not indifferent to life of the kid, often children's aggression – a way to draw attention to themselves. Be interested in children's stories, you do not hurry to abuse and punish the child for the slightest offense. And on the contrary: you praise for any, let small, achievements in any area. Cruel punishments brought nobody good yet; if the child also does not become aggressive, the fear will lodge in his shower. And understanding, sympathy and readiness to help from parents is very important for harmonious personal development. The main method of fight against aggression – a personal example. If the rigid, authoritative relations reign in family, it is almost impossible to overcome children's aggression.