You are often warned that the TV is harmful to the child, but you got used that the child is busy in front of the screen. And you have time to wash the dishes, not volnus for the beloved child. But when you decided to play with the kid, that became angry? Do you want to understand what happened? Let's try.
Actually, there is nothing bad that your child watches TV. Judge how you can say that TV cannot be watched if you stay behind viewing transfers not on an hour?
Why there is such situation with the bans? Most often, parents begin to notice that the child begins to snap and become angry if to try to limit time of his vigil in front of the screen. Children begin to make promises which are not kept then, become hostile and force parents to argue with them and even to threaten. Why all this occurs and how to prevent?
The TV attracts children with several points: 1. Moving pictures. It always drew attention, and even the child of one and a half years can sit and is bewitched to watch transmission, without understanding its sense at all. The attention holds the movement on the screen. Besides, there is also a sound.2. The television is available. Pressed the button - and the show is. 3. Television productions of fairy tales and cartoons. Nothing brighter and desired for the child will be. It if to speak about appeal of the TV to the child. Now we will remember parents: 1. Very often parents enhance allure of the TV. For example, purchase of new can uplift the TV in a rank of what is wished most of all. 2. Parents watch transmissions. Children want to divide these privileges and to stay near mom and dad.3. Parental laziness. It is very convenient when the child sits and watches TV. Mom at this moment can go about the own business, and dad to read the newspaper.4. Parents use the TV as an award. It causes a stir and a habit at the child. Children wean to do something automatically, they get used that there has to be an award for actions. Besides, they will increase the requirements. The best way to prevent hobby for the TV – most to become the most attractive object in the opinion of the child. There is a huge number of games, fairy tales, entertainments and classes which it is possible to carry away the kid. If parents neglect it, then problems are created not by(with) the TV. It is necessary to remember that the child who pushes away mom to look at transfer, can push away likewise then and in other situations. What to do? 1. To look at all above-mentioned and to make conclusions.2. Not to reproach children and not to threaten them as thus you attach to the TV too great value and, respectively, appeal.3. To spend with children more time, playing and being engaged. 4. To find and offer the child some new occupation which demands a minimum of time for training brevity of explanations and it is a lot of movements.5. To explain everything what the child asks about. To treat patiently imaginations of the child.6. Not to disturb children if they are keen on the game not clear to you. If to them it is cheerful, and a game does not bear harm to their health - it is a good game.7. And one more council. Begin a game to sit in front of the TV then when the child lasts. If communication with you is more interesting to the kid, than viewing transfer, the child will begin to stay less in front of the TV, and that will lose the appeal.