In fairy tales often evil ancient ghosts demanded young blood to clothe again young body and beauty. Energy of young blood helped and to the aging governors to feel again young, for this purpose to them on a bed enclosed the beautiful virgin, but not for love joys and in order that old blood ran quicker, in a rhythm from young, reviving spirit of the elderly man.
The reasons of leaving of adult men to young girls
The first reason of leaving of men to young people is their own fear of the coming old age. It represents flight in the second circle of life, attempt to begin all over again with realization of the unrealized desires. It is some kind of opportunity to live the second youth, to inhale young beauty of the companion, to revel in her admiration and to feel like again young, but her already wise mentor.
The second reason is a thirst for romanticism and sensuality. After 40 years the men want romanticism again, as well as in former 18. They dream to plunge into the pink dreams sated with rushes of passions with rough manifestations of feelings, with jealousy when breath with tender feelings is interrupted, and the man feels as the prince. Not to test it the second time with the wife at whom feelings left somewhere deeply and for surfaces there were only obligations and a routine of family life.
(Or not really young) the mistress only rejection of his love by the former wife can be the third reason of leaving of the man to young. The man gives, and the woman accepts. Such relations, apparently, are harmonious. On the contrary such scheme does not work owing to her antinaturalness. As soon as there is a rejection in the form of claims, humiliations, pressure and tough manipulation, the man feels unnecessary here — he is not accepted and instinctively he looks for that which will accept it entirely: its energy, love, its giving rise.
One more reason of men's leaving to the young woman
Perhaps, banal exhaustion of what connected two is the most common cause of escape of men to the young girl. Children grow up, ardent feelings develop into respect, common interests were not in 15-20 years of joint life. To spouses just not interestingly together, it turns out that they have no need to be together. Life flows, but not in this family where everything stood long ago and if the man is not overcome by a remorse, call of duty if public opinion does not frighten, it leaves and, most likely, to young because it bright as flash, and in its light it is easily possible to be updated, having dumped former life and the wife as old skin. Leaving of men is often predetermined, their polygamy is provided by the nature, their seed has to be implemented in many women. And the wisdom of the woman is shown in readiness for this leaving from the very beginning of the relations.