Why the child bites

Why the child bites

Sometimes we do not manage to notice how the child changes, new habits or shortcomings appear. Yesterday the kid smiled to all, and today began to show, his teeth are how sharp and strong. Parents are shocked as such transformation seems to them senseless and wild. Their child cannot combine the soft, gentle, tender kid and a toothy predator.

At such moments it seems to parents that they faced something novel and terrible. From a fright they begin to take some measures, without having considered possible consequences. It is often possible to hear the rough requirement not to bite. All fathers, mothers, grandmothers, grandfathers and tutors of kindergartens amicably begin to threaten the child, to convince that he made something so terrible, as it was simply impossible to imagine. Many parents make in reply the same act and bite the child for some part of a body, as a result life of the child becomes a nightmare. The kid is lost from amazement and begins to think that he not the most awful in the world as people whom he most of all loves, just the same bad, as well as he. At such moments it is necessary for the kid that the clever person was to him near and prompted an exit from the developed problem. It still absolutely small also cannot do without assistance. In most cases the period of "biting" quickly passes. In two years at the kid already there comes the active period of the social relations that becomes a source of strong experiences. If earlier he communicated only with adults, and crying perfectly proved as a way of achievement of the goals, then the relations with children develop absolutely differently. Children are able to be rude whether complain to parents at the slightest pretext and to them all the same other child wants to play it toys. Before you there is a child who wants to achieve something. How he will act? Will develop the territory in the way, convenient for himself. And at the same time it has weapon which force is rather big and will never bring. Sometimes the kid is hostile also everything surrounding wants to hurt. First of all parents have to define whether not this phenomenon is connected with family problems as quite often small zubastik tries to draw by means of aggression to itself attention of parents. What would not be the reason, anyway it upsets people around and if in time not to take a measure and not to stop any attempts, "biting" will drag on for a long time.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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