If the child does not want to see the grandmother and says that he does not love her, it is necessary to understand this situation. For certain to such behavior of the kid there will be some explanation.
Why does that happen?
Remember that the child's relation to the world is based on emotions and the received impressions. It is not necessary to think that your kid hates the grandmother, quite perhaps, he chatters and just is capricious. In his understanding "I do not love" maybe "now I do not want", "I want to remain with mom", "I love less, than..." or at all something another.
If your child states whom he loves and whom does not love, it is necessary to leave him this right. It is not necessary to rape the young person, to impose him the point of view or, what is even worse, to punish for it and to abuse. Treat him as to the adult and go to a serious conversation during which without aggression learn why the kid does not love the grandmother. Perhaps, he will share with you the thoughts or in general will arrive at an idea that the grandmother not such and bad, and he in vain on it slandered.
Nevertheless, despite inconstancy of children and incomplete understanding of some words, sometimes grandmothers really are not beloved. And then there is a main issue: why so occurs? Nobody likes the angry and overwhelming, punishing grandmothers trying to impose the opinion forcing to do something. If your grandmother such, it is necessary to talk to her and to help to understand that such behavior it spoils the child's attitude towards itself. If your grandmother lives too far from you, the child just weans from her and cannot get used when it is near. If not the grandmother comes to you, and you eat on a visit, sharp change of a situation affects behavior of the kid too. Kids love positive and emotional people who reach for them and show great attention. If the grandmother - the owner of cold and quiet character, such behavior can be perceived by the child as indifference.
How to correct everything?
First of all, the grandmother needs to think of the behavior. The authoritative elderly woman should trying to be softened a little. That which lives far the thicket needs to talk to the child and to send him gifts that the child remembered it. The quiet grandmother needs to try to find approach to the kid, children love when they talk to them, watch together with them animated films, play favourite games or toys. It is worth to remember that all children love gifts. For the adult the small presented toy is a trifle, in the house there is already a whole bunch, but for small - each toy is a big event. And if you are able to present to the kid that toy which he asked from parents long ago, he will be delighted. Remember that it is impossible to blackmail the child at all. It is important that the grandmother was a friend with whom it is interesting to play and to which there is always a wish to go to visit.