For some children study at school is an interesting and informative pastime, they with pleasure are engaged and participate in creative life of a class. But there are children for whom the school is an unpleasant duty. The child badly studies, with a reluctance goes to classes, and vacation for him as a godsend. In what does not business why the kid does not love school and want to study?
The most important is to sort outs the real reason of negative attitude to study. Happens that parents overestimate abilities of the child, sending him to specialized school with more difficult program. At first the kid will try, but over time will begin to lag behind the schoolmates and more often to receive bad marks. Parents will begin to become angry, teachers will be dissatisfied too and will write down the school student in lagging behind. As a result the child will just become isolated and will cease to study. In that case parents should consider option with transfer to other school with easier program. Happens and so that the child does not like to go to school because to him it is simply uninteresting there. Not always the teacher can find a common language with all children and carry away them the studying discipline. Buy the child colourful and informative encyclopedias, you go to the museums, you watch together with him documentaries about the nature, geography and world discoveries. After viewing surely discuss the movie and available language explain the difficult moments. Quite often the conflicts at the child with the teacher or with schoolmates can be the cause of bad study. Frankly talk to the child, find out the cause of conflict. Then you go to school and have a talk with the teacher and the class teacher, listen to opinion of all parties. It is possible that your child perceives quite reasonable requirements of the teacher as a cavil and threw study in protest. Check personally doing homework, test the school student regarding digestion of material. If you are sure that the teacher is really unfair to your child and underestimates estimates, go to school and talk on this subject to the teacher and if it is required also with the director of educational institution. More difficult and unpleasant situation is the conflict with schoolmates. Learn from the teacher what occurs in a class what conflicts happen also the reason of their emergence. Communicate to parents of offenders, only it must be done delicately not to aggravate a situation. Also the conversation with the psychologist will be not superfluous. However, if a talk did not help and the situation only became complicated, think of transfer of the child to other class or to other school. And sometimes the reason of bad progress – banal laziness. The child just does not want to do homework and runs to walk on the street or for hours sits at the TV. Explain to him that study – it its reserve for the future, perhaps, it is worth thinking up the system of encouragement for good marks. Do not waste time and do not wait when all by itself is formed. If in time to remove the cause because of which the child does not want to go to school also the progress of the school student will get better.