Children's whims... As it is familiar to all parents. Just cheerful, dear child suddenly began to cry, shout, he cannot be calmed, he is almost uncontrollable. Why it occurs? Why the child is capricious?
Until the kid started walking, his world was limited to a bed and an arena. Everything was safe and available in this small space. But here the child got up on legs and borders of his world considerably extended. The kid was come into the view by those objects which can do him harm. The electric socket, a glass vase, doors cases behind which different interesting things hide. Yes you never know in the house of things which are very interesting to the child, but at the same time conceal in themselves danger. And here the child hears the first it "is impossible". And he very much wants to take, to touch, knock, climb. And he begins to shout, cry, demand that it was given the desirable. Of course, it is the best of all to prevent a similar situation. To try to remove far away all fragile objects, to put caps on sockets, to hold doors of cases closed. But, of course, you will not provide everything and it is impossible to hide all things in the house. In this case it is necessary tenderly, but firmly to tell the child that it cannot be done and to try to switch his attention to something else. Do not follow the tastes of own fumes at all. If the kid understands that he can receive everything that will want, having a little shouted and porevev, further it will be difficult to you to forbid something to him. One of the reasons of whims – the child's indisposition. Something can hurt it, and the baby is not able to explain what is with it. Here he also cries, refuses to play, eat, throws toys. If your child raskapriznichatsya without the visible reasons, it is necessary to take temperature, to attentively examine the child and, perhaps, to call the doctor. Whims can arise because of overfatigue or excessive excitement. Quite often the kid is capricious in the evening when he was tired and it is time for it to sleep. Especially often it occurs in case day was rich with events or in the evening the child played active games with other children. Try to calm the child, let's it drink warm water and put to bed a bit earlier. Sit nearby, stroke, sing a song. Small the capricious child will calm down, will fall asleep, the sweet dream will dream it. And in the morning you do not remember whims any more.