It is considered what to give to girls flowers – it is correct. And any girl has to be delighted to such gift by definition. But sometimes, to surprise of young people, it does not occur. Moreover, the girl can categorically it is not pleasant if her man presents her flowers.
Excessive practicality
It is no secret that now a beautiful bouquet – pleasure not from cheap. Flowers, especially collected "not during a season", brought from far away, cost quite much.
Of course, a bouquet of flowers in the room – it is beautiful. But even if to make all efforts, it will not be possible to keep it for a long time. Some, however, dry the presented bouquets, make of them compositions and carefully store, but such nevertheless minority. As a rule, the bouquet which began to wither simply throw out.
Perhaps, the girl just grudges the money spent as it seems to her, "for nothing". Especially, if they with the young man already live together, and the budget with them the general. But even if it not so, perhaps, the girl would prefer to receive something more essential and durable, bought by the young man for her for the same money?
Love for the nature
Some people just do not love cut flowers. They consider the plants deprived of roots and the soil, the dead. And in something they are right! Really, happens sadly to look at "corpses of the flowers" sentenced to fast death only for a while to decorate someone's interior. Similar feelings are caused in many by a live New Year tree which should be thrown out as soon as New Year's celebrations end. Consciousness that the tree is ruined in vain can significantly spoil them festive mood therefore they prefer to put an artificial fir-tree. And, as a rule, such people with pleasure admire and admire flowers and plants in gardens, on beds and in flowerpots. If the girl who does not like bouquets treats such type of people, perhaps, you should not upset her, presenting cut flowers. It is much more than joy and she will test thanks, having received as a gift a favourite flower in a beautiful pot.
Not those flowers
And maybe, the girl does not enjoy a bouquet just because she does not love flowers of which this bouquet is made. Some are glad to any flowers, but a part of people has preferences and flowers which are not pleasant to them. For some reason it is considered that all have to be delighted with roses, but it far not so. Perhaps, the girl prefers something else and before presenting her flowers, it is quite good to take an interest in her tastes. Perhaps, too strong smell of some flowers irritates the girl. The bouquet put in the room exhaling strong aroma is capable to cause not joy, but a headache. Perhaps some flowers cause unpleasant memoirs and associations in your girlfriend. For example, much carnations cast thoughts of the cemetery and a funeral, and yellow flowers are considered as the sign of the fact that there will come parting soon. Others perceive both carnations, and yellow color very positively, but hate, for example, gladioluses for the reasons known only to them. Or the girl categorically does not accept bouquets since somewhere heard a silly statement that the man gives flowers, only if was guilty of something before the darling. Or just she has an allergy to pollen. It turns out that a bouquet – not such a universal gift, and for darling it is necessary to approach the choice of flowers very thoughtfully and carefully, previously having found out as the girl will treat it then the young man, and his girlfriend will avoid disappointment, and a fine bouquet it will become valid expression only of good feelings.