Many young girls give the love and caress not to those guys with whom at them further it will be died. Then they expect the kid in loneliness and melancholy because future dad disappears at once. They are left without support and that money which are necessary for the child. Some girls despair and decide to leave the baby in maternity hospital.
Women are forced to throw the children for various reasons. Someone does it because of the shortage of money, someone is afraid of anger of parents because of the child's birth single mother, someone hesitates of condemnation of people around, someone is angry with the father of the kid and is not going to look all life at his offspring and to remember unfortunate daddy.
What future at the thrown children
It is very good if at that time when the kid gets to the house of the baby, others will come for it dad with mom. If is not present, waits for it, as well as many others, orphanage or the street. However there is a strong wish to believe that his mom together with close dear people will think again and will take away the child from there. If it does not happen, the child will grow in orphanage without parental love and caress. How will he feel among adults and age-mates? How will he enter adulthood? And whether will find to liking a job? Now social institutions suit such children in a foster home. But whether this kid will get to it, still it is unknown and as he will live there - too.
Many children even of more advanced age did not learn to take the responsibility yet and to independently get things and products. Therefore to them it will be very heavy.
Vital difficulties
Experts consider that to all fault is unemployment and severe vital conditions. Many young women just have no money and housing. The state sometimes helps them, taking away for some time of the child in special facility. When mothers find support, and they adjust life, they can write the application and take away the kid. Before the expiration of this term of mother have the right to visit children in certain time and to care for them, buying toys, clothes and many other things.
As children and personnel are glad when mom comes for the kid. It is necessary to see it with own eyes.
Departments of guardianship and guardianship of some cities for the sake of it published the project, having called its "Mother's Day". Only the fact that someone from "cuckoos" thinks again and takes away the child can be the termination of this holiday. Of course, this action becomes an ordinary miracle. But as want to trust and hope the personnel working with kids in orphanages that kids after all will return to family. Experts say that it can be met seldom. Most likely, nice and healthy children are adopted. Yes, parents are not chosen. And in case mom throws the children, they remain the house of the baby, orphanage and that family in which they will feel maternal love and caress – a reception. Think again, do not throw the children, kind of to you it was heavy!