The relation to love at the man and the woman very different. Sociologists say that a strong half of mankind belongs to the professional activity much more tremblingly, than to family or the mistress. It is connected with features of thinking and priorities.
To be implemented in society, it is necessary to pay the maximum attention to work, and it will allow to receive both the status and income. For this reason men prefer to be engaged in affairs, but not to think of love. It is more important to them to be necessary demanded at work, than in family. They need to be approved on the place, to constantly prove the viability and uniqueness. The love is the spot of vacation and restoration, but it is secondary.
Thinking of the man
Historically it developed that the man provides the family that he is a defender and the getter. To realize these functions, it is necessary to go to some service to the world. It turns out to become the good family man, it is necessary to work. To love the woman, to show her the attitude, it is necessary to give her not only attention, but also gifts, and money is for this purpose necessary that again everything leads to work. All aspects of life come down to one, and it becomes at the head of a corner. If the man does not work, he quickly loses interest in life.
In blood at men competitive spirit, desire to prove the superiority. Today it is not accepted to measure swords in a fight any more, but it is possible to defeat others intelligence, abilities, skills. It is possible to prove that you are the best, the strongest or clever. Where it is possible to execute this comparison? It is difficult to carry out it houses, to compete with the wife or children it is silly and the victory will not bring satisfaction. And among other men it is interesting, and achievements raise a self-assessment, importance, the importance. At work often even sees women of the man how rivals, represents them with opponents who should be defeated.
Man and love
Any man needs love, this magnificent feeling which inspires and gives strength for further work. Presence of the woman does all victories intelligent, now achievements it is possible to put to legs the of the goddess. Existence of love urges on the person to make even more in life. But at the same time it is important that the companion understood that except feeling also the belief in achievements of the husband is necessary, support in this way and creation of cozy conditions is necessary. At emergence of love, the man rushes to win it. But it is not difficult to take top, and therefore interest in it gradually dies away. To keep the partner in life, the woman needs to learn to create for him conveniences, comfort and a cosiness. To such lady, will come to such family of spouses with pleasure, he will have a rest nearby, to be filled with forces, but all the same never to put love above the realization in the outside world.