The conclusion of the marriage union – a responsible and significant act which influences if not for the rest of life, then, at least, its serious part. For this reason you should not hurry too in a registry office even if feelings seem strong and sincere.
Creation of family – the natural and logical final of development of the relations, but not all romantic communications come to an end with weddings. Moreover, many hasty marriages shortly break up, leaving at the former spouses feeling of bitterness and disappointment in the relations, the institution of the family and, often, in each other. It occurs for various reasons, but one of main is that newlyweds simply do not know each other in that degree which is necessary for successful family life.
Psychologists accurately divide such types of romantic attachments as love and love while many young men and girls of a special difference do not see. Meanwhile, love is purely emotional state during which attention is practically not paid to the analysis and reflections. People in love are inclined to idealize themselves, the partner and even surrounding reality. Unfortunately, this feeling cannot proceed eternally, as a rule, the strongest emotional lift does not keep longer than half a year.
During this time it is necessary to recognize as much as possible the future partner, to understand his desires, motives, experiences, values and the principles. In so-called "candy buketny" the period all this is not of particular importance, but these qualities become into the forefront in family life. Quite often it happens that the people who married on euphoria wave find out that they do not know at all that person with whom live. Naturally, such surprise is capable to bring a set of disappointments which can destroy early marriage.
Family life significantly differs from the traditional romantic relations consisting of dates and moonlight walks. Household problems fall on newlyweds, besides, they should spend together much more time, and not everyone is ready to it. The romantic crape will inevitably fly as in marriage the partners recognize each other much closer, and by no means not always this information at least approximately coincides with their representations. For this reason marriages which consist too hasty bring to people much more disappointments, than happiness. Of course, successful exceptions exist, but it is a little of them and to expect what to you will surely carry, it will be a little precipitate. If you cannot wait to fix the relations with the partner, to transfer them to new level, it makes sense for a start to try to live together without official wedding especially as modern society treats such civil marriages much more loyally. In principle, so tolerantly public opinion and to stains, but ideally marriage oaths are sworn for the rest of life, and the prompt divorce for certain will disappoint not only you, but also your relatives who were sincerely happy for you at a wedding. If your relations really are fated to be long and happy, then excess half a year without stamp in the passport will change nothing, and can save from chagrin and problems.