The person who recently began to communicate in chats quite often experiences difficulties in selection of a phrase to start a conversation. How having joined an electronic conversation, to join organically it?
Instruction
1. Having started the program for work in chats and having joined all rooms in which you participate, do not send in them a phrase "To all hello!". On daily "greetings" in conferences beginners because the users participating in rooms long ago for the purpose of saving of time usually configure the client program easily come to light in such a way that it is automatically started at turning on of the computer and enters all chats. The program works constantly, but the experienced user is only distracted by communication when it has several minutes of free time. Everything told here about greetings fully concerns also farewells.
2. Wait for emergence in a question conference, the answer to which you well know. Answer it, bring the answer to the interlocutor benefit, and you will raise the rating in the opinion of old the participant of this chat. If you do not know the answer to a question, do not litter the room with fruitless reflections, guesses - just keep silent. If today you answer a question for the first time, right now, but not at the time of accession to a conference, it is better to greet participants. For example: "Hello! At this loudspeaker four contacts, are used only extreme, and averages should not be connected anywhere".
3. If in a chat senseless discussions like "are conducted that it is better, a, b or v" (so-called "holivara"), not only do not begin communication in such room, but also do not spend precious time for reading messages in it. Remember expression: "holivar is a dispute where everyone tries to impose on other participants opinion that they suit footwear of its size". Look for other conference in which constructive dialogues are conducted.
4. Other extreme - to be connected to the room and not to tell in it at all anything even if other participant contacted you. Such users in chats for fun are called "spies" and sometimes expelled. Tell a little about yourself, about the sphere of the interests, about questions which well you understand. If at this time in the room there is a conversation on other subject (for example, one participant advises another on any given question) not to disturb them, pass in privat.
5. Having accustomed to a chat, it is possible to begin to ask also the questions. Do not invent their subject, ask only about about what you need really to receive the answer. Contact the room behind consultations, advise others and get experience, be not distracted by idle communication, and the chat will become your assistant in work, but not a factor distracting from it.