Seeking to find to itself the partner in life, many women resort to the help to Network. Search of acquaintances by the Internet is convenient. But real meetings often disappoint. Especially offensively when the Internet and acquaintance with whom, appear, it was succeeded to create married couple appears a house aggressor. Whether it is so difficult to recognize the despotic personality, relying on the text which you see in an Internet chat?
Define the potential family despot quite easily at the initial stage - in the course of Internet communication. What it is signs?
- Your acquaintance is impatient, utters to you for the fact that you answer the message not immediately though you are in Network, becomes angry for the fact that he sent a sms, and you did not throw everything and ran to check messages.
- Likes to cover the text of messages with the smilies expressing negative feelings and aggressive intentions.
- It is inclined to state at communication grandiloquent gloomy thoughts, sometimes - irreal, acting on mentality as something unclear, slightly frightening. And if you ask again that he meant, then you receive indulgent instructive explanation then you feel like the silly and narrow-minded person.
- Constantly assures of own honesty, swears that ""and was"", too often uses words: ""word of honor"", ""I promise"", ""I swear"", ""I tell an honest truth"" and so forth.
- Takes offense or flies into a rage if something goes not on the plan which is drawn up by it.
- It is inclined to reproaches, in response to a request to excuse, continues to show discontent, cold, neglect, tries to prick and manipulates sense of guilt.
- It is not inclined to jokes, finds bad sense of humour, is angry with ironical notes.
- It is excessively venomous, speaks of people with unpleasant irony, it is inclined to ambiguous sneers, verbal obscenities - hidden or explicit.
- It is inclined to judge people, to glue labels: ""it needs only sex" ", " "it needs only money"" and so on.
- It is inclined to blackmail, in conflict situations, trying to obtain the, can threaten to lay out intimate correspondence, or the sent intimate photos on the Internet.
- Seeks to accuse of conflict situations, asks loaded questions and itself answers them, ignoring your opinion, defiantly without noticing your objections, questions, specifications.
- Loves that before it apologized, humiliated and if you seriously took offense - becomes importunate, low apologizes, supplying them with abundant oaths and self-deprecating words.
- Likes to speak about other people with condemnation, to gossip, ""pick to pieces"" to Internet and acquaintances, accenting negative information. In a conversation about others exaggerates a negative and diminishes positive sides, scornfully speaking of advantages of other people.
- Constantly complains of problems, accusing of it other people. Finds tendency to anger, seeks to seem excessively ""abrupt"".
- It is inclined to boast, constantly compares itself to someone with the maximum benefit for itself, the image.
- Likes ""lisp"", using umenshitelnolaskatelny suffixes in words, and at the same time - does not shun obscene language if communication accepts conflict character.
- Your frendlist is inclined to control, finds morbid curiosity concerning people from your circle of Internet communication, is jealous and podzritelen, uses any reason for demonstration of jealousy.
The aggressive, despotic personality - always a problem. It is not necessary to think that you will become for an aggressor the person whom the dark negative filling it will not concern I smother. All signs given above can characterize both men, and women. Of course, Internet communication cannot give completely an exhaustive idea of the person who is on that side of the monitor. But sometimes and it is enough to see what the person applying for acquaintance and a real meeting can be in everyday life. The main thing is to be observant and not to be under a delusion.