Today online relationships already stopped being something improbable or indecent. More and more couples get acquainted on open spaces of a world wide web, and many, being even married or is married, nevertheless constantly communicate in social networks including with an opposite sex. Internet communication including flirtation, it can be really very useful, but at the same time conceals in itself a set of dangers.
We are beings secret
That is when say that we are beings social, it is not only that we live in society, and it is rather that we need it.
For example, if we were comprehended by Robinson Crusoe's fate, then we would feel bad and uncomfortablly not easy because it is boring for us, there is nobody to chat and separate a bunch of bananas. And there is it because our natural biological requirement cannot be satisfied — to belong, adjoin pack, or, more precisely, society. Therefore Internet communication gives us this feeling of social accessory even if virtual. For this reason many like to join the different groups on social networks. Especially it is important for people silent, not sociable and unsociable.
Stability
People extremely hard transfer any changes in the life. For example, the stressful status extended today most often is connected with changes of living conditions. At the same time tension is usually caused not only bad, but even by joyful events — a wedding, purchase of the apartment, the car, the child's birth and so on. And bad news — a divorce, parting, dismissal — especially unsettle. And therefore at such moments it is just necessary to feel "the soil underfoot", some stability.
Personal liberty
If to speak about real life, then true friends and the real flirtation requires some obligations. That is you should meet really people, select for this time, somewhere go, communicate, talk, postpone another matters. And here online flirtation gives the chance to manage independently the time which you are ready "present" to other person. If you " do not keep the appointment" with the virtual admirer, nothing terrible happens. Besides the lack of time can always be explained with lack of Wi-fi or small speed of the Internet. Of course, such small, noncommittal talks can bring pleasure. But under a condition if you really treat Internet flirtation as a game.
Danger!
Having been fond of flirtation on the Internet, it is possible to think that it is even more important than real life. And truth, apparently, that there such rich life. It is so much admirers, hours-long informal conversations, fleeting love and serious emotions. But if to go deep into it as in the real life, such flirtation inevitably threatens with serious disappointments. Because online acquaintances, despite very strong similarity to the real world, nevertheless this reality are not. Attempts to drag people from online on a bench in the park also threaten with destruction of pleasant illusions. For certain you know hundreds of stories when instead of the lovely, affable blonde with whom you coquet three months in a chat the appointment is kept by the embittered rude fellow with an opposite voice and the appearance which is a little reminding the photos sent them.
Dependence
It is an opportunity to leave often disturbing and unpredictable reality when every day brings let small, but problems, to the world of the beautiful illusion based on love and high feelings. And there, in this illusion, you forget about problems, alarms and cares. Of course, it is quite good if you do it periodically and for a short time. But if the dependence develops and you begin to give to the virtual world more and more time to the detriment of other life, consequences can be the most destructive. Women — beings emotional, and it are necessary feelings. For this reason disappointment in new acquaintances on the Internet bring the same pain, as well as in real life.
So use network as assistant in work, getting of new information on the world around, communication and even flirtation, but at all not as "the permit to the parallel world" where it is possible "to emigrate", having forgotten about reality.