Often young parents, thinking of addition in family, begin to endure concerning possible difficulties at education two kids at once. Especially if age difference not too big.
Instruction
1. To prevent jealousy of the kid of the newborn brother or the sister, prepare him for this event in advance. Tell how he will help you to bathe and feed the baby. As all of you will walk together on the platform. Explain that the senior to be prestigious and remarkable.
2. Don't allow at the senior child of thoughts that his place was taken by the newborn. Surely you find time to play favourite games of the kid, to read the book, to stay with it alone while youngest sleeps.
3. Adhere together with the spouse of identical methods of education. Nothing so confuses the child as different views of dad and mom on the same action. At the same time, if you don't allow something to the senior, treat also and the younger child. It will prevent the conflicts between children and won't allow doubts concerning parental love.
4. Don't allow constant leadership of the senior child. Since it can lead to development of complexes in the kid in the future. He will get used to submit in everything and won't be able to express own opinion or independently to make decisions.
5. Don't allocate one child more, than another. You praise each kid that they felt identical love and care of themselves from parents. Try not to say type phrases: "You are more senior.". It can result in negative attitude of the senior child to the kid.
6. Cultivate love and mutual respect in children. Explain that they the closest and dear people. It will allow to construct the strong harmonious relations in family and will save from the constant conflicts.
7. Try that besides the general things each child had also own toys or books. Each person needs personal space and personal belongings.