Ability to inspire and lead, causing boundless belief in people and settling in their consciousness own ideas – properties not just the leader, and the person allocated with charisma. It is an unusual phenomenon which actually meets very seldom, and here persons interested to discover its secretion and to understand how to develop charisma for the sake of achievement of the power over people, it is a lot of.
In ordinary understanding it is simple – enough charm and abilities to attract to itself general attention. But there is a lot of such people and if they stop being active, are depressed or miss, then surely lose popularity and attractiveness, forget them.
And what psychology of true charisma?
It attracts always. People cannot and do not want to resist to its huge force. They wish to follow only the leader, to submit his ox, to live his ideas. Such leader does not think of how to increase the charisma because he is always great. And when he exclusively spiritual as Buddha or Cristo, or is committed to high ideals as Gandhi or Castro. And even when for the great idea it launches wars, conducts on murders and destructions as Napoleon, Hitler or Stalin. Because formation of personal charisma does not depend on the level of morality and ethics, a kind of activity or communication in any way, it is connected only with the exclusive force of influence on others.
Sometimes in it see some magic or hypnosis because in translation from Greek the word "charisma" means "Charisma", and the German psychologist Max Weber defined it as "extraordinary quality of the personality", possession of special, superhuman forces and abilities what anybody does not have any more.
Whether it means that independent development of charisma is simply impossible? Or there are some ways to become the same bright and convincing leader? Really, ways of education of charisma are. But many study only that impact on people which is usual manipulation as to develop charisma very difficult. But if the person is faced by such purpose, it is enough to it to remember great figures and to understand what their characteristic features were. They can become those reference points which will specify how to develop charisma.
So, what qualities of charismatic leaders?
First, all of them have determination and courage. They never accept the current situation, and they settle the same feeling of disappointment in others, forcing them to work and think. Besides people need the direction, they want to have hope and to see light at the end of the way. And leaders give them this hope, showing the new horizons and prospects, inspiring everyone by the vision of the future.
Secondly, they are beautiful story-tellers. Knowing bright language of images and metaphors, they infect all with the energy and the ideas. And, thirdly, they thinly feel people and are able to show that appreciate them. Charismatic persons are capable to convince everyone that treat it with great attention and responsiveness.
How to begin development of charisma?
It is necessary to work on the image and behavior: to enhance the appeal, self-confidence, to fulfill ability to react quickly to changes and to work in unusual circumstances.
The following step – accurate understanding of the purposes and a way of finishing them to people around.
If there is an idea – it is necessary to work it and to understand, than it can be important for people who will bring the benefits and improvements in their life. Then it is necessary to inform of it others simple and clear language. It is necessary to learn to say: to master rhetoric and art of belief, to develop force and expressiveness of the speech. It is charisma of exercise, very important for development.
Besides, it is necessary to develop initiative and courage, freedom of acts and self-expression, ability to catch and understand feelings of people around, their motives and desires. It qualities of the true leader, leader. And without them – how to develop in itself charisma?
Any change of, especially such as desire to develop own charisma – big internal work, is also given it not easy. But this work – only the beginning because it will open the road to future great fulfillments.
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