sometimes achieve the objective for the reason that he is too open for people around and is artless. To such person can easily mount upon a neck and force it to make such acts which are not favorable to it. Easier to live and try to obtain the, it is necessary to be more acute and clever, closed for others and cunning.
How to develop cunning and sharpness?
Looking at inveterate sly fellows, some people begin to doubt whether it is possible to develop cunning at adult age. But psychologists are sure that it is possible to modify any traits of character on condition of systematic work and existence of huge desire. As for cunning, they offer such councils how to develop cunning:
- Allow themselves to be cunning. The problem is that many people consider cunning negative quality and try always positive. However around us there live imperfect people who can use our straightforwardness and responsibility in the purposes.
- Never tell everything that you know on some question, do not justify. Leave the place for imaginations of the interlocutor. It is not obligatory to explain why and for what you acted this way. Just you say that so it was necessary.
- Try to understand motives of the person. Psychologists claim that on average the person lies daily not less than 5 times. Therefore you should not take any information in all good faith. Your mistrust to the person will look as insight.
- Do not trust the emotions. It is necessary to make the decision always under control of reason, but not feelings which can lead into a blind alley.
- Play on weaknesses of the interlocutor. If he loves a praise, then begin a conversation with a praise. If sweets, then treat with chocolate, etc.
- Development of cunning assumes good knowledge of people's psychology. You learn to understand people and to find to them approach. You say what they want to hear and you are silent about the fact that it will be unpleasant to them.
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