One of the most serious crises in life of the man is a crisis of achievement of 40-year age. The man very much changes with age – its values, fears, desires change. Here and the psychology of the man in 40 years significantly differs from that that it was peculiar him ten years ago.
Psychology and types of men after 40
Most of men at forty-year age fits into one of the following categories:
- Psychology of the 40th summer man: "Everything is excellent! Could be". Such man pretends that he's fine, all under control. It has a good work, stability. And actually, it is driven into the deadlock, he was tired and does not know in what to look for rescue from a routine.
- "Everything is bad!". This man by 40 years finds out that he still did not get a job the dream, did not reach what dreamed at early age of, and suspects that he already and will not reach. Often it happens the divorced man after 40 which psychology indicates thirst for stability which in his life did not turn out.
- The man after 40 years with psychology like "life boils". Such man perfectly worked, realized the ambitions, got that education and that job which he wanted. It took place in all spheres of life, is happy and happy. And it is rare type of men.
Such man is already quite stale, plunged into work, has the numbed principles and foundations. The stronger he will open to the world, the adaptation to this age will be easier for it.
How to understand psychology of the man in 40 years?
If to draw bole-less generalized man's portrait in 40 years, then this person already took place in life, not in everything, but in general is happy with himself. It has any more no aspiration to fight for any idea and desire up to the end – he got used that he has, and to it it is quite enough.
At this age the man fully begins to appreciate the spouse who with it passed a lot of things, and friends who remained for many years. In 40 years of the man become more judicious and sentimental, but together with it also their level of sensitivity which is better for keeping under control increases not to touch with it the wife and children.
Many become sceptics – especially in case did not reach yet what dreamed of. Because of it 40-year-old men sometimes make suicides, but in general, it is small percent from all. Others hide from rigid life in alcoholism or drug addiction. Such, not implemented types often are afraid of the years and try to get young friends and young mistresses to feel a course of life, to be in the center of events and to hide from an old age. By the way, they almost never abandon families – after the next novel such man always comes back to the wife.
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