There are several signs indicating emergence of sense of guilt, dispassionateness. At treason, habits, traits of character sharply change. There can be secrets, changes in sexual life.
Psychologists, psychotherapists say that at treason the male behavior strongly changes. Seldom what spouse manages to suppress the fact of appearance of the mistress. Lack of such knowledge at the woman – her choice, a nezheleniye to take those small "signals" which the husband begins to give into account. It should be taken into accountIt should be taken into account also the fact that only the few men are able to lie so plausibly not to give themselves. There are 11 signs with which it is possible to assume the treason fact.
1. Forgetfulness and fatigue
The man forgets about dates, important for couple. It can be day of acquaintance or a wedding. Even once of the girlfriend it is necessary to remind of a birthday. Can cease to carry a ring or periodically to remove it. There is more poor intimate life that is explained by fatigue, problems work.
The lack of sexual desire is the brightest sign of presence of the mistress. Sometimes process becomes monotonous, without prelude, sexual intercourse comes to an end very quickly.
2. Unusual behavior
Changes happen also in usual interaction to the woman. Depending on temperament and attitudes the behavior sharply changes. If the woman, according to the man is guilty of treason, then he becomes irritable, aggressive. In a situation when the man has an opinion that treason on his conscience, the spouse becomes very gentle and careful. Sometimes the behavior sharply changes from kind and tender to aggressive and angry.
3. Criticism of the woman
Men at treason in most cases try to shift responsibility for the behavior to the woman. They begin at any opportunity to criticize, carp at all trifles. Begin to reproach even for the most insignificant mistakes. Generally it occurs to have an opportunity to pay off most in the eyes. Such behavior allows to distract attention of the wife or girlfriend from own shortcomings.
4. Jealousy and calculation
The changing man often considers that his woman to him stopped being true. He begins:
- to read messages in phone and social networks;
- every day checks your daily log;
- studies contacts in the telephone book.
At the same time he does not allow to make the same to the companion. If she after all reaches phone, then the list of messages is empty. In the telephone book new names of men with the names close to women's can appear.
5. Phone conversations
One of strong indications of treason are also the phone conversations which are carried out in other room. In this time the man tries to retire, and later on questions of that with whom dialogue took place, begins to behave aggressively or just is silent. Calls can be and night. Often at this time day SMS come what the man can answer that it just the message with balance.
6. Changes in appearance
At unfaithfulness of the man begin treats the appearance more tremblingly. They begin to be cut more often, can change style in clothes. Often there are new hobbies, for example, a visit of gym, the pool. It has new bright shirts, hours and a purse. At the same time the man will badly react to remarks and questions of change of style.
7. New habits
Women can pay attention that in a lexicon new words appeared. They can be characteristic at communication of the satellite with other girl. Also other habits, for example, the brand of cigarettes, shampoo, toilet water change. You can notice that the young man began to behave more relaxedly in public, flirtation appears.
8. Lack of romanticism
At treason the man begins "to delete" the woman from the life slowly. He not to seek to acquaint you with the friends any more. It occurs not only because there is desire to spend time separately. There is a fear that the woman accidentally learns from the third parties about the new relations.
9. Smell of other woman
You can catch that regularly from the spouse smells of others spirits. Sometimes the man unexpectedly begins to take a shower right after work. It is worth paying attention to it if in the past of such changes did not happen. You can notice on clothes others female hair, traces from lipstick, scratches.
10. Emergence of new poses in a bed
It is not that your satellite decided to diversify your relations. There are new poses, at the same time all actions courageous and sure. An impression about skill can be made. Men usually answer questions of the one who taught it with irritation. At the same time certain rituals, for example, a kiss or before leaving for work can be gone in the morning from life.
11. Insignificant gifts
Usually they are not perceived as sign of treason. Therefore it is necessary to look at regular insignificant gifts in a complex. If you feel that in this action there is no romanticism, then it in most cases shows sense of guilt. According to men, gifts are a quite good way of clarification of the conscience.