It is considered to be that on "ten little girls statistically nine children". On a dating site a ratio of female and men's questionnaires too not in favor of "girls". Women, unlike men, place the candidates on these resources more willingly. Nevertheless, some men's questionnaires remain not so demanded. It is connected with a variety of reasons.
Unsuccessful photo
By means of the photo of the visitor of the deyting-portal will receive the first impression about you. Therefore it is necessary to approach this question responsibly. If the picture is not pleasant, hardly the girl will want to look through the questionnaire further.
In order that the photo was attractive, take the following recommendations into consideration:
- Contrary to opinion of men, seminude pictures only push away women.
- Do not use group photos.
- Do not place pictures where you are in an unusual situation or non-standard conditions.
- Surely add the photo with your hobby, but do not do it by the main thing.
- And here it is even undesirable to place pictures against the background of expensive mansions and cars (if they yours). So you will attract the girls who are looking for sponsors, but not the soulmate.
- Do not use accessories. Dark glasses, the hat pulled over eyes guard.
- Do not place a photo where you are much younger. And to you there is a wish that the woman who is most corresponding to the image on a dating site came to a meeting.
- The photo has to be qualitative. Agree that to consider an indistinct outline of very few people attracts.
- Do not use the photoshop.
- If you want to induce an opposite sex to acquaintance, then use a photograph where you look directly in the camera. The smile, openness and slackness make a positive impression.
If the suitable photo was not, ask somebody to remove you. And better address the professional. He knows all nuances of a status photo.
Truth disparagingly
The same information can both attract an opposite sex, and to push away. Therefore at the man who thinks as it is more favorable to describe the biographical particulars the chances are one success more.
Use full names: not Fedya, but Fedor, not Vanya, but Ivan. To draw attention to itself, it is possible to show a little originality. For example, instead of Mikhail to write Michael.
Surely interestingly and just tell about yourself, about the hobby. Narcissism and arrogance pushes away.
The work can be described, having a little embellished. I.e. having replaced a job title with more modern sounding ("seller" on "manager", "police officer" on "detective story", "commodity researcher" on "merchandiser", etc.). The girl already in absentia will begin to be proud of you.
Financial position – business thin. If you do not accept salary, it is not necessary to advertize it. If you write "to me is enough", most likely you will be ignored. Specify "is simply financially secure". It truth.
About the car and other property it is better not to write in general. Now you will surprise with similar nobody.
Marital status
If the man specifies that he is married, then chances to get acquainted at it will be minimum. Therefore it is necessary to describe the actual marital status honestly. For example, "he is married, but we live separately", "was in a civil marriage, but left by agreement". Without details of the private life and offenses at the former partners.
The overestimated requirements to the candidate
All have preferences and wishes, but you should not be obsessed with them. Girls will avoid your questionnaire if you impose too many requirements to them.
Do not write about what irritates you in girls. Thus you can eliminate the worthy candidate in which everything will admire you also nothing to irritate. As for addictions, the girl can from them and get rid, having fallen in love with you.
It is worth refraining from the description of a concrete female image with appearance details. So you can remain lonely. Do not forget that external parameters can be changed, (of course if you so are pleasant to the girl). The main thing that the person was good and suited you.
Illiterate text
Any, even the most attractive, the profile is capable to push away the girl if information is written with gross spelling mistakes, with spelling and punctuation errors. Carefully check the text, using editors.
Negative spirit, banality and rudeness
The woman thinly feels if the questionnaire is impregnated with negative emotions and despondency. Do not reflect any negative facts in the questionnaire. Put yourself to the place of the interlocutor. Striking up new acquaintances, people look for an occasion to change the life to the best. Add a little appropriate humour, self-irony.
Be open, sincerely and are positively ready. And your soulmate by all means will find you.