To learn what father will be a man, it is rather simple to observe him a little. Its attitude towards people around and behavior will help to understand its psychology.
The behavior will prompt
"People meet, people fall in love, marry" - is sung in the popular variety song in which there is no word about continuation of the relations. Often they come to an end with a wedding. And after it and to children nearby. However at all love and the romanticism accompanying it the thought of emergence in family of the successor or the successor can sadden one question, important for the woman: what father for their children will her elect be?
But, as psychologists assure, reasons for concern in this case should not arise. It is quite simple to learn it: the attitude towards people around and which behavior will surely give the necessary answer is rather simple to observe more attentively the young man.
Signs of the good father
Experts on men's psychology note that there are certain signs which existence will prompt to the woman what father will be any given man. Among the main mark out nine such "criteria".
1. He is a homebody
If the man prefers to spend the most part of free time at home, with family is a good indicator. Usually it testifies to that, as in the future this young (or not really) the person will be not against to work with the child of the house instead of cheerfully spending time with friends. It is worth looking narrowly at such man. But if he loves entertaining actions in the cheerful companies, hardly from him the good father will turn out. Though exceptions to the rules, though it is rare, but nevertheless exist.
2. He is a fan of animated films
Your elect can sit in a row till several hours at the TV (computer) at viewing animated films? Great! Means, he will be able safely to find a common language and with the child. So do not abuse the beloved for cartoons: this hobby can perfectly help you.
3. He is careful
If the man does not hesitate to show the emotions and to express feelings, if he takes care to the family to him to people, surrounding, do not doubt – he will be not only the good husband, but also the beautiful, attentive and careful father.
4. It – not only in family
If the man in family was not the only child - it is the good sign. As a rule, such children are able to care for others, to be attentive, and at times and very independent. Especially, if they have younger brothers and sisters. So, such man, will be able without problems and to change a diaper (at least once in life it did it of interest, well or tried to make) and to change clothes of a romper suit and to feed. It will be possible to entrust such person of the kid without problems. Earlier, with the advent of younger brothers sisters, he already took a peculiar "course of the young fighter".
5. He helps about the house
If the man helps the darling with cleaning about the house, cooking, then and with the advent of the kid, he will surely take active part in its feeding, swaddling, bathing. Such men usually become very good fathers.
6. He is stress-resistant
If the man is able "to behave": does not break on trifles, does not raise the voice, does not shout, it is difficult to enrage it, and practically in any situation keeps calm, you were lucky. Means, it will perfectly transfer both a baby's cry and a postnatal condition of mummy. And this high quality for the father.
7. It not against changes
Your elect is ready to any experiments? Excellently! As a rule, such people with firmness transfer problems and well perceive any changes. And with the advent of the child of change in family surely will occur.
8. He loves children
It is possible to judge what the man will be a father on his attitude towards children. It can be relatives, children of friends and acquaintances. If the man shows to them interest, is able to find with them a common language, to interest, involve in a game, can calm the crying neighbour's child, most likely, and with the kid it in this plan will have a full order.
9. He is ready to become a father
The man himself hints at the child, openly says that he wants to become a father? He with interest looks at other children, pays attention to children's things and toys? It is the good sign. The similar behavior speaks about readiness of your elect for a new role – a role of the father.
Qualities of the good father
The good father can become for the child an example for imitation. He is kind, but moderately strict. It is ready to be engaged in education of children. In difficult situations is not given, and looks for solutions. Quietly copes with hysterics and whims. Always keeps the promise. And quite often is an authority for the child.