Girls differently communicate with guys. Someone easily finds with them the general subjects for a conversation, and someone guesses, without knowing about what it is possible to talk to the guy and about what - it is impossible.
Communication with the unfamiliar guy
You were very lucky if the young man himself shows an initiative in communication, finds subjects for a conversation, striking girls with the outlook and intelligence. But so happens not always. And to find proper words a time very hard.
However there are certain subjects, noncommittal both of you. First of all, it is music, the film industry. You share the tastes. If you managed to get acquainted with the guy quite recently, try to ask him about favourite movies.
When you receive the answer to the question, try not to criticize tastes of the young man. Partial coincidence of the genres preferred by both of you will be ideal option at least.
Besides, it is possible to talk about pastime of the young man, about his hobby. Tell it and about the hobbies. It is possible that interests will be similar, and you will have general subjects for a conversation. Even if your interlocutor tells something not really, in your opinion, interesting, try not to show it it openly. It is necessary to listen to him. In the questions be always tactful. One more taboo subject – never tell the unfamiliar person about the last private life. Not important, you communicate with him confidentially or just decided to write him the message on social network. Intimate things do not need to share with strangers.
If suddenly the conversation came to a standstill, it is possible to remember two-three of jokes. The humour always comes to the rescue in such situations.
Communication at a meeting with well familiar young man
If you are familiar rather long time, to you, undoubtedly, it will be simpler to find the general subjects for a conversation. You are already not so constraining in communication, know a focus of interest of your interlocutor, his preference. There are personal subjects concerning only you two. During your acquaintance for certain you had mutual friends, joint interests, to you will be what to remember from the latest events. It is necessary to take an interest, how was your day at the young man. You treat him as wish it concerned you. This golden rule will allow you to avoid many conflict situations. It you will let know that it is not indifferent for you. In case your young man had temporary difficulties in life (for example, problems with study), try to help him. But do not impose on him the opinion at all. And, on the contrary, if you need council, ask it about it. There is a certain circle of questions which guys understand better, and their councils can be very useful. Anyway listen to the inner voice, he will prompt you the correct subjects for a conversation.